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PERHAPS this couple:
Joseph TILBURY m. Elizabeth BELCH 26 November 1812 Little Missenden, Buckinghamshire
by banns - both of this parish - witness: HEARN
Whether or not the above couple were Thomas of Chalfont's parents, it is probable that the Joseph & Elizabeth listed below had a child prior to the birth of Mary c.1816 (if, as was usual, they married at about age 20).
Chalfont (St. Peter's), a parish, in the union of Amersham, hundred of Burnham, county of Buckingham, 4 miles (E. by N.) from Beaconsfield; containing 1416 inhabitants. The living is a vicarage, endowed with part of the rectorial tithes, and valued in the king's books at £15.17.1.; present net income, £600; patrons, President and Fellows of St. John's College, Oxford; the remainder of the great tithes belong to three proprietors of land in the parish. The church, rebuilt in 1726, is a plain brick edifice, with quoins and window and door-cases of stone brought from the ruins of the Roman station of Verulam, now St. Alban's: it contains some ancient gravestones with brasses. This parish is intersected by a tributary stream of the Colne, called Missbourne, upon which there is a silk-mill, affording employment to about 50 women. The petty sessions for the division are holden here. At Gerrard's Cross the Earl of Portland built a school, which is supported by his descendant, who appoints the master, paying him a salary for teaching poor boys of this and the adjoining parishes; and a fund is now accumulating for the purpose of endowing another school.
1841: Gerrard's Cross, Chalfont St. Peter, Buckinghamshire
Joseph TILBURY age 50 b. [1791] Buckinghamshire (Bricklayer)
Elizabeth TILBURY age 50 b. [1791] Buckinghamshire
- Mary TILBURY age 25 b. [1816] Buckinghamshire
- Sarah TILBURY age 25 b. [1816] Buckinghamshire
- Thomas TILBURY age 21 b. [1820] Buckinghamshire (Bricklayer)
- Ann TILBURY age 16 b. [1825] Buckinghamshire
- Caroline TILBURY age 10 b. [1831] Buckinghamshire
Daniel PAGE age 2 b. [1839] Buckinghamshire
Sarah TILBURY b. c.1816 may have died before 1851: I can find no suitable marriage for her, neither find her in the 1851 census. There were two Sarah TILBURYs whose deaths were registered for Amersham district: 1842 and 1844.
A possible marriage for Thomas son of Joseph & Elizabeth:
Thomas TILBURY m. Sarah [?GOSDEN 2Q 1841 (Farnham 4/103)?]
1841-51 - only one death for an ET, Amersham reg:
Elizabeth TILBURY d. 4Q 1847 (Amersham 6/217)
Elizabeth TILBURY b. 1Q 1843 (Amersham 6/320)
Margaret TILBURY b. 4Q 1844 (Amersham 6/300)
Emma TILBURY b. 3Q 1846 (Amersham 6/327)
Mary Jane TILBURY b. 1Q 1849 (Uxbridge 3/449)
Thomas TILBURY b. 1Q 1851 (Uxbridge 3/460)
1851: Gerrards Cross, Chalfont St. Peter, Buckinghamshire
Joseph TILBURY, Head (Widower) age 60 b. [1791] Chalfont St. Peter, Buckinghamshire (Bricklayer)
- Mary J. TILBURY, Daughter (Unm) age 37 b. [1814] Chalfont St. Peter, Buckinghamshire
- Ann C. TILBURY, Daughter (Unm) age 25 b. [1826] Chalfont St. Peter, Buckinghamshire (Dressmaker)
Daniel RIDER, Visitor age 12 b. [1839] Rickmansworth, Hertfordshire
1851: West Drayton, Middlesex
Thomas TILBURY, Head age 32 b. [1819] Gerrards Cross, Buckinghamshire (Bricklayer's Labourer)
Sarah TILBURY, Wife age 31 b. [1820] Chelwood, Somersetshire
- Elizabeth TILBURY, Daughter age 8 b. [1843] Gerrards Cross, Buckinghamshire
- Harriet TILBURY, Daughter age 6 b. [1845] Gerrards Cross, Buckinghamshire [Margaret?]
- Emma TILBURY, Daughter age 4 b. [1847] Gerrards Cross, Buckinghamshire (Bricklayer's Daughter)
- Mary TILBURY, Daughter age 2 b. [1849] Uxbridge, Middlesex
- Thomas TILBURY, Son age 2 mths b. [1851] West Drayton, Middlesex
1851: Gerrards Cross, Fulmer, Buckinghamshire
Caroline TILBURY, Servant (Unm) age 20 b. [1831] Chalfont St. Peter, Buckinghamshire (General Servant)
James WOOD, Head age 41 b. [1810] Footscray, Kent (Baker & Grocer)
Jane WOOD, Wife age 37 b. [1814] Kingsdown, Kent
+ 3 Sons, 3 Daughters; 1 Servant (Journeyman)
Ann Charlotte TILBURY m. Richard WINTER 1Q 1852 (Uxbridge 3a/25)
Selina TILBURY b. 2Q 1854 (Uxbridge 3a/22)
Clara TILBURY b. 4Q 1856 (Uxbridge 3a/16)
Caroline TILBURY m. Joshua WILKS 1Q 1858 (Uxbridge 3a/15)
1851-61 - only one death for a JT, Amersham reg:
Joseph TILBURY d. 3Q 1859 (Amersham 3a/250)
Joseph TILBURY b. 3Q 1859 (Uxbridge 3a/18)
Sarah TILBURY d. 3Q 1859 (Uxbridge 3a/13)
Joseph TILBURY d. 3Q 1859 (Uxbridge 3a/14)
[?Mary J. TILBURY snr?]
1861: Near The Green, Church Lane, West Drayton, Middlesex
Thomas TILBURY, Head (Widower) age 40 b. [1821] Gerrards Cross, Buckinghamshire (Bricklayer)
- Margaret TILBURY, Daughter age 15 b. [1846] Gerrards Cross, Buckinghamshire (Scholar)
- Mary J. TILBURY, Daughter age 12 b. [1849] Uxbridge, Middlesex (Scholar)
- Thomas TILBURY, Son age 10 b. [1851] West Drayton, Middlesex (Scholar)
- Selina TILBURY, Daughter age 7 b. [1854] West Drayton, Middlesex (Scholar)
- Clara TILBURY, Daughter age 4 b. [1857] West Drayton, Middlesex
[N.B. below, a married woman G.P., with Surgeon / Apothecary husband]
1861: Near The Green, Money Lane, West Drayton, Middlesex
Elizabeth TILBURY, Servant age 18 b. [1843] Gerrards Cross, Buckinghamshire (Nursemaid) - with:
Edwin C. COTTINGHAM, Head age 35 b. [1826] St Johns, Lambeth, Surrey (M.R.S.S. & L.S.A. Eng.)
+ Wife Emma J. age 30 b. [1831] Chester (General Practitioner)
- Daughter Kate age 8 mths b. West Drayton, Middlesex
Thomas W. BRYER, Boarder (Unm) age 65 b. [1796] Tunbridge Wells, Kent (Gentleman) (Dumb)
Fanny CHANDLER, Servant age 18 b. [1843] Denham, Bucks. (House Servant)
George WATTS, Servant age 16 b. [1845] West Drayton, Middlesex (General Servant)
1861: Old Village, Windsor, Berkshire
Emma TILBURY, Servant age 14 b. [1847] Gerrards Cross [Buckinghamshire] (House Servant) - with:
Sophia HOOD, Head (Unm) age 80 b. [1781] West Drayton, Middlesex (Lodging House Keeper)
Sally BARTHOLOMEW, Sister - Visitor (Married) age 70 b. [1791} Uxbridge, Middlesex
Henry BARTON, Lodger (Unm) age 25 b. [1836] Sarsden, Oxfordshire (Curate of Old Windsor, M.A. Oxford)
1861: Cops Corner, West Drayton, Middlesex
Ann KING, Head (Widow) age 42 b. [1819] Iver, Buckinghamshire (Charwoman)
- William KING, Son age 12 b. [1849] West Drayton, Middlesex (Grocers Shop Boy)
- Thomas KING, Son age 10 b. [1851] Iver, Buckinghamshire
- George KING, Son age 8 b. [1853] Iver, Buckinghamshire (Scholar)
Thomas TILBURY m. Ann KING 4Q 1862 (Uxbridge 3a/63)
Margaret TILBURY m. William CLARK 2Q 1869 (Kingston 2a/413)
1871: The Green, West Drayton, Middlesex
Thomas TILBURY, Head age 52 b. [1819] Gerrard's Cross, Buckinghamshire (Bricklayer)
Ann TILBURY, Wife age 50 b. [1821] High Wycombe, Buckinghamshire
- Thomas TILBURY, Son age 20 b. [1851] West Drayton, Middlesex (Gardener)
- Clara TILBURY, Daughter age 14 b. [1857] West Drayton, Middlesex (Scholar)
+ William KING, Son-In-Law age 22 b. [1849] West Drayton, Middlesex (Seed Crusher)
+ Thomas KING, Son-In-Law age 20 b. [1851] West Drayton, Middlesex (Seed Crusher)
+ Eliza PARSONS, Sister-In-Law age 37 b. [1834] High Wycombe, Buckinghamshire (Dressmaker)
+ - Annie PARSONS, Niece age 10 b. [1861] Harefield, Middlesex (Scholar)
1871: Weald Hall, South Weald, Essex
Elizabeth TILBURY, Servant age 27 b. [1844] Gerrards Cross, Buckinghamshire (Housekeeper) - with:
Cristopher C. J. TOWER, Head age 30 b. [1841] Brayfield, Buckinghamshire (Landowner & Magistrate)
+ 6 other servants: Butler, Page, 2 Housemaids, Kitchenmaid, Groom
+ (in rooms over Stables) 1 Groom, 1 elderly Gardiner & Wife
1871: College Road, Harrow, Middlesex
Emma TILBURY, Servant age 23 b. [1848] Gerrards Cross, Buckinghamshire (Housemaid) - with:
George W. GREGORIE, Head age 35 b. [1836] Westminster, Middlesex (Lieut. RN ret., B.A. Oxon, & President of the Inner Temple)
Eliza S., Wife age 36 b. [1835] Bangladesh
+ 3 Daughters, 2 Sons age 9-2
Arthur F. WHISTLER, Visitor age 24 b. [1847] Wokingham, Berkshire (B.A. Oxon)
+ Governess, Cook, Nurse, male Servant
1871: Knowles Cottage, Berryland's Rd., Kingston, Surrey
Selina TILBURY, Servant age 19 b. [1852] West Drayton, Middlesex (General Servant) - with:
Mina A. BOWLBY, Head age 40 b. [1831], & sister Frances M. age 31 b. [1840]: Sunderland, County Durham
+ Jane Alice BURTON, Servant, Nurse, age 35 b. [1836] Hampstead Heath, Middlesex
Emma TILBURY m. David ROBERTS 4Q 1873 (Uxbridge 3a/31)
Elizabeth TILBURY m. James KIL(L)WORTH 4Q 1874 (Uxbridge 3a/31)
Thomas TILBURY m. Mary Ann EYLES 2Q 1875 (Kensington 1a/60)
Selina TILBURY m. Herbert Wallace CARTER 3Q 1877 (Midhurst 2b/657)
Emily Sarah TILBURY b. 4Q 1875 (Marylebone 1a/534)
Charles Frederick TILBURY b. 2Q 1877 (Marylebone 1a/547)
Harry TILBURY b. 2Q 1880 (Thetford 4b/419)
1881: The Green, West Drayton, Middlesex
Thomas TILBURY, Head age 62 b. [1819] Chalfont St. Peter, Buckinghamshire (Bricklayer)
Ann TILBURY, Wife age 60 b. [1821] Wicombe, Buckinghamshire
- Clara TILBURY, Daughter age 24 b. [1857] West Drayton, Middlesex (Bricklayer Daur.)
1881: 37, Earles St, Thetford St Cuthbert, Norfolk [next to the "Globe Inn" at no. 35]
Thomas TILBURY, Head age 30 b. [1851] West Drayton, Middlesex (Dom Serv, Valet)
Mary Ann TILBURY, Wife age 29 b. [1852] Edgware, Middlesex
- Emma Sarah TILBURY, Daughter age 5 b. [1876] Marylebone, London, Middlesex
- Charles Fredk. TILBURY, Son age 3 b. [1878] Marylebone, London, Middlesex
- Harry TILBURY, Son age 1 b. [1880] Thetford, Norfolk
Clara TILBURY m. Edwy Godwin CLAYTON 2Q 1881 (Islington 1b/485)
Emily Sarah TILBURY d. 2Q 1882 age 6 (Thetford 4b/256)
Harry TILBURY d. age 5 3Q 1885 (Steyning 2b/165)
Thomas William TILBURY b. 3Q 1882 (Thetford 4b/389)
Albert Edward TILBURY b. 1Q 1885 (Steyning 2b/313)
Arthur TILBURY b. 4Q 1886 (Steyning 2b/285)
Thomas TILBURY d. 2Q 1888 age 69 (Uxbridge 3a/9)
Sidney TILBURY b. 3Q 1888 (Steyning 2b/282)
1891: 4, Wise Lane, West Drayton, Cowley, Middlesex
Ann TILBURY, Mother (Widow) age 70 b. [1821] West Wycombe, Buckinghamshire (Blind 10 Years) - with:
William A. KING, Head age 42 b. [1849] West Drayton, Middlesex (General Labourer) (Partly Paralysed 10 Years)
- Charles KING, Son age 14 b. [1877] West Drayton, Middlesex (Milk Boy)
- Andrew KING, Son age 11 b. [1880] West Drayton, Middlesex (Scholar)
1891: 70, Shirley Street, Hove, Sussex
Thomas TILBURY, Head age 40 b. [1851] West Drayton, Middlesex (Valet Domestic Servant)
Mary A. TILBURY, Wife age 39 b. [1852] Edgware, Middlesex
- Charles F. TILBURY, Son age 13 b. [1878] Marylebone, London (Grocers Assistant)
- Thomas W. TILBURY, Son age 8 b. [1883] Stretford, Norfolk (Scholar)
- Albert E. TILBURY, Son age 6 b. [1885] Hove, Sussex (Scholar)
- Arthur TILBURY, Son age 4 b. [1887] Hove, Sussex (Scholar)
- Sidney TILBURY, Son age 2 b. [1889] Hove, Sussex
Frank TILBURY b. 1Q 1892 (Steyning 2b/271)
1901: 4, Mill Road, Wise Lane, West Drayton, Middlesex
Ann TILBURY, Mother (Widow) age 82 b. [1819] High Wycombe, Buckinghamshire (Blind) - with:
William KING, Head age 51 b. [1850] West Drayton, Middlesex (Paralysis)
Annie KING, Wife age 53 b. [1848] Oxford (Charwoman)
- Charles KING, Son (Single) age 24 b. [1877] West Drayton, Middlesex (Railway Porter, worker)
- Henry D. KING, Son age 16 b. [1885] West Drayton, Middlesex (Millboard Finisher, Paper Manuf., worker)
Julia BACON, Visitor age 1 b. [1900] Hounslow, Middlesex
Albert E. HALL, Nurse Child age 1 b. [1900] West Drayton, Middlesex
1901: 70, Shirley Street, Hove, Sussex
Thomas TILBURY, Head age 50 b. [1851] W. Drayton, Middlesex (Valet Domestic, worker)
Mary A. TILBURY, Wife age 49 b. [1852] Edgware, Middlesex (at home)
- Thomas TILBURY, Son age 18 b. [1883] Shelford, Norfolk (Jeweller, worker)
- Albert E. TILBURY, Son age 16 b. [1885] Hove, Sussex (Green Grocer, worker)
- Arthur TILBURY, Son age 14 b. [1887] Hove, Sussex (Grocer, worker)
- Sydney TILBURY, Son age 12 b. [1889] Hove, Sussex (Scholar)
- Frank TILBURY, Son age 9 b. [1892] Hove, Sussex (Scholar)
Unable to find Charles Frederick TILBURY in 1901
Ann [__] [widow KING] TILBURY d. 2Q 1902 age 82 (Uxbridge 3a/16)
Charles Frederick TILBURY m. Ada Ellen FRANKLIN 3 September 1905 St. Mary's, Eastbourne, Sussex (Eastbourne 2b/135)
Notice in the Eastbourne Gazette of 13 September 1905
"Eastbourne Gazette", 19 September 1906
Mr. F. TILBURY, Juror, 15 September 1906: Inquest into the death of Alfred WILMSHURST, a milkman run over by an omnibus, held at the Princess Alice Hospital, Eastbourne, Sussex - verdict: accidental death
Nellie Edwina TILBURY b. 3Q 1906 (Eastbourne 2b/64)
Albert Edward TILBURY m. Rosina Emily CREWE 1Q 1910 (Steyning 2b/471)
1911: Henly House, Frant, Sussex
Thomas TILBURY, Servant (Married) age 60 b. [1851] West Drayton, Middlesex (Butler Domestic) - with:
Henry Melville Scott MALDEN, Head (Married) age 49 b. [1862] Brighton, Sussex (Tutor for Army, Universities etc.; employer)
- Clifford Cecil MALDEN, Son (Single) age 20 b. [1891] Tunbridge Wells, Kent (2nd Lieut. 1st Battn. Royal Sussex Regt.)
- Alice Ruth Dorothy MALDEN, Daughter (Single) age 18 b. [1893] Tunbridge Wells, Kent
- Charles Melville MALDEN, Son age 13 b. [1898] Frant, Sussex
- Katharine Constance MALDEN, Daughter age 7 b. [1904] Tunbridge Wells, Kent
Mary Effie Walters Scott MALDEN, Half-Sister (Single) age 39 b. [1872] Brighton, Sussex
Jonathan Malden BRANFOOT, Nephew (Single) age 17 b. [1894] Hove, Sussex (Student Reading for Cambridge)
Ralph Henry LUPTON, Tutor (Single) age 27 b. [1884] Birkenhead, Cheshire (Classical Tutor; worker)
Robert COURTHOPE, Pupil (Single) age 20 b. [1891] Hawkhurst, Kent (Student Reading for Cambridge
Aubrey Lister HAYTER, Pupil (Single) age 18 b. [1893] Acton, Middlesex (Student Reading for Engineering)
Terence Henry VERSCHOYBE, Pupil (Single) age 18 b. [1893] London, Middlesex (Student, General Education)
Alice LADE, Servant (Single) age 40 b. [1871] Frant, Sussex (Cook Domestic)
Eliza SESSIONS, Servant (Single) age 21 b. [1890] Croxton Kerrial, Leicester (Parlour Maid Domestic)
Caroline POLLINGTON, Servant (Single) age 16 b. [1895] Mark Cross, Sussex (House Maid Domestic)
Alice Phoebe KING, Servant (Single) age 16 b. [1895] Fulbeck, Lincolnshire (Kitchen-Maid Domestic)
Annie Hannah HEASMAN, Servant (Single) age 15 b. [1896] Wadhurst, Sussex (Under House Maid Domestic)
Alice Emily GOLDSMITH, Servant (Single) age 17 b. [1894] Tunbridge Wells, Kent (Nurse Maid Domestic)
John Charles GOLDSMITH, Servant age 14 b. [1897] Tunbridge Wells, Kent (Bootboy Domestic)
1911: 70, Shirley St, Hove, Brighton, Sussex
Mary Ann TILBURY, Head (Married 35 yrs., 8 children b. alive, 6 lvg.) age 59 b. [1852] Edgware, Middlesex
- Arthur TILBURY, Son (Single) age 24 b. [1887] Hove, Sussex (Greengrocer's Assistant)
- Sidney TILBURY, Son (Single) age 22 b. [1889] Hove, Sussex (Grocer's Assistant)
1911: 132, Terminus Road, Eastbourne, Sussex (9 rooms)
Charles F. TILBURY, Head age 33 b. [1878] Marylebone, London (Dairy Manager)
Ada E. TILBURY, Wife (Married 5 yrs., 1 child b. alive, lvg.) age 32 b. [1879] Chelsea, London (Assisting in the Business)
- Nellie E. TILBURY, Daughter age 4 b. [1907] Eastbourne, Sussex
Fanny HUGGETT, Servant age 18 b. [1893] West Malling, Maidstone, Kent (General Servant Domestic)
1911: 20, Northfield Avenue, W. Ealing, Middlesex (5 rooms)
Albert Edward TILBURY, Head age 26 b. [1885] Hove, Sussex (Greengrocer, Employed at home)
Rosie TILBURY, Wife age 22 b. [1889] Hurstpierpoint, Sussex
- Edward Albert TILBURY, Son age 1 mth b. [1911] Ealing, Middlesex
Frank TILBURY, Brother (Single) age 19 b. [1892] Hove, Sussex (Greengrocer Assistant, Worker)
Harriett CREWE, Mother (Married) age 50 b. [1861] Seeds, Kent
[I have found no explanation of "Edward Albert T" above and another Edward below, after having tried various name combinations, searches, including deaths - Caroline, October 2013.]
"Eastbourne Gazette", 16 October 1912 Mr. Charles F. TILBURY, Juryman, 12 October 1912: Inquest into the death of Inspector Arthur WALLS, held at the Town Hall, Eastbourne, Sussex
1914: Kelly's Directory for Ealing, Hanwell, Brentford & Southall
Albert E. TILBURY, greengrocer, 20 Northfield Avenue, West Ealing [Middlesex]
"Eastbourne Gazette", 21 April 1915
Mr. C. F. TILBURY, Juror, 17 April 1915: Inquest into the death of Mrs. Sarah Emily GORE, wife of Mr. John GORE, held at the Princess Alice Hospital, Eastbourne, East Sussex
Edward G. TILBURY (mother CREWE) b. 2Q 1916 (Eastbourne 2b/127)
Edward G. TILBURY d. 3Q 1916 age 0 (Eastbourne 2b/91)
From notices in the "Eastbourne Gazette", 13 September 1916:
Master _ TILBURY b. 15 May, d. 6 September, 1916, age 4 mths
Son of Mr. and Mrs. A. E. Tilbury of 15, Junction Road, Eastbourne, Sussex: acknowledgements
Edward G. TILBURY was buried in Eastbourne, Ocklynge Cemetery, plot ref. UC (only one in grave), inscription:
In memory of
our little darling.
EDDY son of
Albert & Rosina Tilbury
died Sept: 6th 1916.
Norman TILBURY (mother CREWE) b. 2Q 1918 (Eastbourne 2b/130)
Arthur W. E. TILBURY m. Ellen M. SMITH 3 January 1921 (Dover 2a/2341) (Registry Office)
"British Food Journal" vol. 25, no. 3, 1923 (pub: MCB UP Ltd)
Presence of Copper Sulphate. Case Dismsised.
At the Eastbourne Borough Police Court on February 5th, Albert Edward TILBURY was summoned ...
Charles F. TILBURY d. 3Q 1925 age 48 (Hastings 2b/38) [b. c.1877]
"Hastings and St. Leonard's Observer" Saturday, September 3rd, 1925
MRS. TILBURY and daughter sincerely thank all the friends who kindly wrote and left messages in their recent sad bereavement.
"Hastings and St. Leonards Observer" Saturday, September 5th, 1925
DEATHS.
TILBURY - On Sunday. August 30th, at a nursing home, Charles Frederick TILBURY, 140, London-road, St. Leonards, after five months illness, aged 48.
Albert E. TILBURY d. 2Q 1944 age 56 (Hailsham 2b/124)
"The National Probate Calendar (Index of Wills and Administrations)"
Albert Edward TILBURY d. 2 June 1944
Home address: Rokeby, Stone Cross, Westham, Sussex
(My thanks to CarolineL and the Hailsham message board for the above)
A Sidney TILBURY of the right age d. 1Q 1953 Hammersmith: possibly the son of Mary Ann & Thomas.
Rosina E. TILBURY d. 4Q 1965 age 81 (Eastbourne, Sussex 5h/318)
Albert & Rosina TILBURY were buried in Eastbourne, Ocklynge Cemetery, plot ref. UIB 11, inscription:
ALBERT EDWARD TILBURY
who died June 2nd 1944, aged 56 years
Always smiling, thoughtful and kind.
Also of ROSINA EMILY wife of the above
died November 29th 1965.
"The London Gazette" 10 March 1972
Mildred Louise HOLT, deceased, of 26 Magdalen Road, St. Leonards-on-Sea, Sussex, formerly 3 Charles Road, St. Leonards-on-Sea, Sussex, Widow: d. 6th December 1971.
Notices of claims to be given to: BAILY, STRICKLAND & BRYANT, 13 Warrior Square, St. Leonards-on-Sea, Sussex, Solicitors.
Claims to be received by 14th May 1972 (ref. 041).
Personal Representative of the deceased: Nellie Edwina TILBURY.
Nellie Edwina TILBURY b. 29 June 1906, death reg. 4Q 1983 (Truro, Cornwall 21/0592)