Oliver Tilbury
Cowdray House, Sussex, UK

Who were Oliver's family?

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Oliver Tilbury

From other Researchers + the IGI

m. Dorothy WATERIDGE 1 August 1659 Bentley, Hampshire

m. Elizabeth BATH 3 May 1722 Lockerley, Hampshire

+ Elisabeth
...2. William TILBURY Chr. 2 February 1722 Lockerley, Hampshire
(February came after May in 1722)

...2. John TILBURY Chr. 9 March 1737 St Leonard, Sherfield English, Hampshire

From records at West Sussex Record Office
Browne family of Cowdray Park, Viscounts Montague
Estate & Family (previously "The Montague Papers")

6 August 1764
Anthony, 6th Viscount Montague, signed and sealed a 99-year (or 3 lives) lease - from the previous Lady Day - with John RESTALL, victualler of Cocking, against the payment of 5 and an annual rent of 4d. (ref.COWDRAY/39)
Witnesses: William SCUTT, Oliver TILBURY

Deeds: Midhurst - Easbourne

27 December 1769
Assignment (ref.SAS-BA/246)
Witnesses: Jos. UPPERTON, Wm. SANDHAM, Oliver TILBURY

From the "London Evening Post", Tuesday, May 28, 1765

To be LETT
And enter'd upon immediately,
A Good well accustomed Oil Leather Mill, with convenient Water-Pits, Drying-House, and all necessary Accommodations for carrying on that Business; and a small Parcel of Meadow Land contiguous thereof.
Situate at Midhurst in Sussex; late in the Occupation of Mr. Thomas AMBER.
Enquire of Mr. Oliver TILBURY, or Mr. Henry R_EDE, both of Midhurst aforesaid.

From the "St. James's Chronicle or the British Evening Post", London, Saturday, April 1, 1769

To be Lett, on a Lease of seven Years, and entered upon immediately, at Easebourne, a pleasant Village near Midhurst, in Sussex.
A Dwelling House in good Repair, with a large Garden, producing Fruit and Tillage almost of every Kind in great Abundance, together with good Stables, a Coach-house, and all other convenient Appurtenances. It is situated in a pleasant, healthy, and cheap Country, at the Distance of 50 Miles from London, one Mile from Midhurst, five from Petworth, both of them Market Towns, and half a Mile from the London Turnpike Road. It is plentifully supplied with the best of Water, and Fuel, as Coals, Beech, or Oak Wood, and is to be had at a moderate Price. It has a pleasant Outlet into Lord Montague's Park, where is a great Variety of delightful Views, Rides and Walks, well adapted to all Seasons of the Year, shady and airy in the Summer, dry and healthy in the Winter. There are three Fields containing seven Acres of very good Land belonging to it. The Rent of the Whole is 30l. a Year. The Tenant is to pay all Taxes, and to keep it in Repair.
For further Particulars enquire of Mr. FOGG, at No. 50, New Bond-Street; or of Mr. TILBURY, at Midhurst, Sussex. [Was this Oliver?]

Cowdray House, Sussex

From Access2Archives & West Sussex Record Office
Browne family of Cowdray Park, Viscounts Montague

"... the estates of Sir William FITZWILLIAM, created Earl of Southampton in 1537. His purchase of the Cowdray estate had brought him the manors of Cowdray, Easebourne ..., and Rustington, the lordship of the borough of Midhurst, and the advowson of Easebourne. Then in 1536 he received a grant from the Crown of..., the site of the dissolved abbey of Waverley in Surrey ..., including the manors of Waverley, Wanborough, and Markwick and Monkenhook (in Alford), all in Surrey, and the rectories of Waverley and Wanborough; the manors of Neatham (in Holleybourne), Swarraton, and Boyatt (in Otterbourne), all in Hampshire; the manor of Dockenfield (in Frensham) in Surrey and Hampshire; and the manor of Shaw [Grange] in Berkshire: and ..., the site of the dissolved priory of Easebourne, with some of its possessions, including the manor of Worthing, the rectory and advowson of Compton, and the advowsons of Midhurst, Fernhurst, and Lodsworth."

"The Earl of Southampton died in 1542 without issue ... his properties ... subject to the life interest of his widow, passed to his half-brother Sir Anthony BROWNE .... The Countess lived until 1550, but Sir Anthony BROWNE seems to have entered upon the properties at once."

"Sir Anthony BROWNE ... succeeded his half-brother. In 1537 he had received from the Crown a grant to himself, his wife, and his heirs male ....
The 2nd Viscount died in 1629, and was succeeded by his son Francis ....
The Cowdray estate seems to have suffered severely during the Civil War. It was sequestered in 1643, and the House occupied by the parliamentary forces."

"The 8th Viscount died unmarried in 1793 ..., and the title passed to Mark ANTHONY, his fourth cousin once removed, a friar at Fontainebleau in France, who forthwith obtained dispensation to marry. To the new Viscount passed, also, the manors of Poynings, Perching, and Pangdea ... granted in 1537 to Sir Anthony BROWNE and his heirs male. The rest of the estate the 8th Viscount left to his sister, Elizabeth Mary .... A few weeks before his death, Cowdray House was almost completely destroyed by fire."

"In 1794 Elizabeth Mary BROWNE married William Stephen POYNTZ, son of William POYNTZ of Midgham, Berkshire ....
William Stephen POYNTZ succeeded his father in the Midgham estate ....
Although they [Elizabeth & William] resided upon the estate in a converted keeper's lodge for the rest of their lives, no attempt was made to rebuild the House."

Extracts from "Cowdray House, Sussex" a history & description by 'An Architectural Antiquary"
Published in 'The Gentleman's Magazine' 1834 (editor: Sylvanus Urban)

"Forty years ago, Cowdray House, possessed of high antiquity, presenting a grand and perfect exterior, and an interior richly stored with the treasures of art and industry, in curious furniture, valuable paintings, and a library abundant in MSS., was the residence of Lord Montagu. It is now a mass of irretrievable ruins. I shall not here attempt to detail the circumstances of the accident which produced this awful calamity, so distressing to the family, and so fatal to the mansion, which had preserved its ancient splendour, no less in its banquets than its architecture, during many centuries; but it may be briefly remarked, that on the fatal night of the 24th Sept. 1793, was rapidly demolished by fire a building which had been reverentially preserved and constantly inhabited by the founder's posterity. The fire, which commenced in the north gallery, soon extended itself to the chief apartments joined to one extremity, and those on the opposite connected with the gateway; and the ruins betray the power of the element, and the extent to which it carried its ravages, no individual member of the structure having escaped injury except the kitchen.

The situation of Cowdray House is low and sheltered, in a park of great extent, commanding almost every beauty with which nature could grace it. Excepting its vicinity to Midhurst, which a steep and well-wooded hill shuts out, though little more than a quarter of a mile distant, the site of this house seems to have been selected for no particular advantage, since it comprehends none of those scenes which distinguish many other parts of the park .... In the midst of the level track, the Arun pursues its course with silent celerity, between deep and narrow banks, and forms the boundary of an otherwise unenclosed lawn. A spectator accustomed to the system of ancient Domestic Architecture, will readily discover, as he approaches the building, an exception to the almost invariable rule of guarding the chief gateway by a court, at whose entrance was another though inferior gateway; and his imagination will easily and accurately supply the deficient member ... but as it must be admitted that motives of state and convenience sanctioned an arrangement which originated in an age when security was principally consulted, it must also be obvious that the front of Cowdray House has been divested of the appendages, which both ornamented and protected it, and that the river answered the purpose of a moat which might not be passed without obstacle.

... under the powerful temptation of a national improvement (for so it was deemed) in architecture - it was at least an universal alteration of its style, corresponding with a change in internal economy.

... and certain it is, that Cowdray long preserved the integrity of its style ....

... the general character and arrangement of Cowdray House, on the four sides of a quadrangle, one hundred feet broad from the gateway to the hall, and one hundred and forty in the opposite direction ... the chapel proves to the eastern front, a feature as bold and ornamental as a transept to a cathedral.


The chapel is suitable both in extent and architecture to the house; it is forty-eight feet long, and received its light through five lofty windows at the east end, which is of a sem-octagonal shape; their tracery is handsome, and, together with the embattled walls, remains entire and substantial. The sanctuary of the chapel was probably divided from the body by a wooden screen in the centre, from which point the width of the building is increased on the south side only. There are two doorways, one on each side at the lower end; that towards the south opens into a porch, which has an entrance on every side. Opposite is a door-way leading to a handsome apartment of the house, twenty-five feet long; the other openings lead into the gardens. The consecrated enclosure is obstructed by rubbish, and overgrown with weeds, and a cluster of brambles flourish on the spot once occupied by the altar."

Cowdray House Ruins in 1859
From "The Life of Samuel Johnson" by James Boswell, John Wilson Croker
Published 1833 by George Dearborn - page 323
Cowdray House, footnote

"There is a popular superstition that this inheritance is accursed, for having been part of the plunder of the church at the Dissolution; and some lamentable accidents have given countenance to the vulgar prejudice. When the Editor visited the ruins of Cowdray twenty years ago, he was reminded (in addition to older stories) that the curse of fire and water had recently fallen on Cowdray; its noble owner, Viscount MONTAGUE, the last male of his ancient race, having been drowned in the Rhine at Schaffhausen, within a few days of the destruction of Cowdray [September 1793]: and the good folks of the neighbourhood did not scruple to prophesy that it would turn out a fatal inheritance.

At that period the present possessor, Mr. POYNTZ, who had married Lord MONTAGUE's sister and heiress, had two sons, who seemed destined to inherit Cowdray; but, on the 7th July, 1815, these young gentlemen boating off Bognor with their father on a very fine day, the boat was unaccountably upset, and the two youths perished; and thus was once more fulfilled the forebodings of superstition.

See some curious observations on the subject of the fatality attending the inheritance of confiscated church property in Sir Henry Spelman's Treatise on the 'History and Fall of Sacrilege' - Ed."

From "The Progresses and Public Processions of Queen Elizabeth" by John Nichols
Published 1823, John Nichols and Son - page xxviii
Preface, footnote

"... Dr. Milner, in his History of Winchester, remarks that Elizabeth knew how to relax the Laws in favour of those who pleased her. For example, Cowdray-house was a kind of privileged place for priests, where scores of them were sometimes assembled; and, in the Act, 6th of Eliz. against acknowledging the Pope's supremacy, there was an express exemption in favour of Peers. Thus, what was high treason in a Commoner, was lawful in a Lord."

"The Priory mentioned in [Elizabeth's] Visit at Cowdray ... must be that of Esseburn, Eseburn, or Oseburn, near Midhurst, founded by Sir John Bohun, of Midhurst, in the Reign of Henry III.; and granted 28 Henry VIII. to Sir William Fitz-William."


Was Oliver TILBURY of the same line as James of the 1818 Will? Might he have been the father of both James and Richard - at least (see below)?

There are few Tilburys with the given name of Oliver, and it might have signified past sympathy with Cromwell's cause. (Cowdray House was taken over by the parliamentarians during the civil war.)

Sarah, James' sister, married William PARKER in October 1796 in Steventon. Usually (but not always) a marriage took place in the bride's parish.

The fire at Cowdray House was in September 1793. Since the house was mostly reduced to a ruin, indoor servants at least may have either lost their employ, or have transferred to other premises belonging to the Montague family. Unmarried daughters might have gone to live with relatives, or been found a place by them?

Richard Tilbury of Midhurst

From Sussex Archaeological Collections, 1863
Old Papers found in a Tower of Cowdray House

[The tower enclosed the old kitchen on the ground floor, with an apartment above; after the fire an additional floor was inserted between the kitchen and the apartment, and the papers were kept there (possibly a steward's office).]

pg. 73

"A much later bill of a rustic snip will finish these notings. In 1672, Gilbert HANNAM founded a Grammar-School in Midhurst. It is to be hoped for the credit of that Institution, that Richard TILBURY was not one of the alumni.

1784 £ s. d.
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 John BENEM Pair fine Stout Dito 1 5 0 
 Robert CHAPMAN Pair fine Stout Dito1 5 0 
 John FLUCK Pair fine Stout Dito1 5 0 
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 £7 17 9
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