To The
Part of the
dale/brown family album
Memorial To Merritt S. Sanders
25 February 1919 - 18 October 1945
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This picture was taken at our
home in Port Townsend, WA, Christmas of 1946 as noted on back of the photo.
The story of these three pictures as they appear in this Christmas photo of 1946
are being told as outlined above in the navigation pages of this Sanders/Dyer family. The pictures
are sitting on an end table in front of a Christmas Tree, (by a couch), which I recall going out with
some of my brothers to cut down. At this period of time dad owned 4 lots.
All of the lots with the exception of where the house was located, were covered
with evergreen trees. There were several photos of Merritt but in my mom's eyes
these were the predominate ones.
First
came the picture of Merritt in the folding type one with the sail boat. This one was taken
shortly after he enlisted in the Army after 21 Oct 1938 when he was 18 or 19 years old. |
Then
came the one showing him as Sergeant, for confirmation see the letter from Merritt to mom
dated 5 February 1944, which was replaced with the one of Gladys Shear and
Merritt. |
After
the sadness and disappointment of his first marriage to Barbara he stated
in a V-Mail letter
dated 24 Nov 1943, to mom; "I sure do
have a sweet wife now. I will be glad when you can see her." I
have tried to find his first wife, but at this time to no avail. |
Finally there is the picture of his
daughter Judy that Gladys had sent mom showing Judy at 3 months old.
Merritt never lived to see his daughter. |
The Dale family traveled
quite a bit prior to my school years, and whenever the folks decided that they would like
to visit relatives in Illinois, Oklahoma or wherever these photos were the first ones
packed and mom knew exactly where they were packed away at and were the first things to be
unpacked. They first stayed in the front room on an end table near the couch. After awhile
they were placed on a cedar chest in her bed room, which my brother Lloyd
had built in a high school wood shop . It seems that they were positioned so it was the last thing mom saw
before going to sleep and the first thing she saw upon awaking.
Merritt was the love of my moms life, she only
had Merritt with her a little over 18 years, but I'm willing to bet that this was the best 18 year
old child and mother relationship anyone had.
I was too young to remember
Merritt, but doing this project it seems that I now know him as well as anyone in his
short life time. If my math is correct, Merritt only lived 26 years 7 months and 23 days.
Participants in this Memorial to Merritt
(To speed up downloading time, most images will
be in thumbnail size
just click on the image to obtain a larger view).
Mary D. Dyer married Merritt Smith Sanders prior to
1903, probably in Illinois. With the exception of John Brown, Merritt and mom, the
photos were provided by Debra Matton, granddaughter to Zephel Edna Sanders. Photos of
Lafe Cemetery, Merritt Smith Sanders, Mary D. Dyer headstones can be seen at
Maternal Cemeteries along
with the obit of Merritt S. Sanders.
Merritt
Smith Sanders
The following notes provided by Great
Granddaughter Debra Matton that were provided to her by the children of Merritt Smith
Sanders/Mary D. Dyer:
He was a barber and sold furs.
They were farmers from East TN and were heading West when they got to Thebes, IL they did
not have the money for the ferry to cross the river. They settled in Thebes,
and later moved on to Lafe, AR. |
Mary D.
Dyer
From the research by Debra Matton, Roxanne Bayle, Floyd Bennett
and myself we believe Mary's parents to be William Riley Dyer/Nancy K. Swearingham. There
are several variations in the spelling of Nancy K. last name but we believe these to be
her parents.
From Floyd Bennett research;
Nancy K. (Seana) Swingum was married to a man with the last name of
"Stevenson" (first name Unknown) but believe to be
"Tom", about 1870.
This man, while drunk, killed Seana's brother about 1875 and was sent to
prison for 30 years. About 3 years later, she married Riley Dyer.
Her two children, born in this marriage to Stevenson, Mary and Sam, took
the name "Dyer" for the remainder of their life. |
Zephel
Edna Sanders
Zephel is a sister to my foster brother Merritt
S. Sanders of which this Sanders Family pertains to. Zephel is also the Grandmother to
Debra Matton.
Zephel was born 21 March 1903 in Thebes, IL. She married
John Alfred Harris in
1921.
John A. Harris was a Postmaster in Lafe, AR.
My mother Florence Mae Brown was born 7 May 1902 in Thebes, IL.
They were school friends and
corresponded throughout their life as shown by this school class photo
of about 1909-1910..
Class Photo |
Mom & Zephel Harris |
Marie Nellie Brown |
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1
Florence Mae Brown Dale 2
Mom And Zephel Sanders Harris
3
Mom Sister Marie Nellie Brown Dyer
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John
Brown
John and Gustara Augustus Malinda (Gussie) Brown family my
maternal Grandparents, took Merritt Jr into their family when he was
about 2 years old.
Merritt's Jr. mother, Mary D. Sanders died in Lafe, AR during the
flu epidemic, 13 March 1919. When Mary died, her husband was left with
seven children, 16, 12, 11, 6, 5, 4, and 1 month. It would have been very
difficult for him with the number of small children and no family living
in the area.
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Florence Mae Brown
I first found Merritt Jr. with the
family of Alva and Noretta Dyer Holshouser Family in the
1920 Thebes, Alexander Co., IL Census. Noretta is a younger Sister of
Mary. Here he is listed as Merritt Smith 11/12 years old as Step-son. So
it appears that when Mary Dyer Sanders died 13 Mar 1919 Merritt was placed
with Alva and Noretta Holshouser Family. It appears from the pictures of
Merritt with Mom and Grandpa John Brown Merritt was about 2 or 3 years
old. Why and how he joined the Brown Family has yet to be determine.
Gussie Brown died and is buried in the Old Thebes
Cemetery 28 December 1924. John Brown died and is buried next to Gussie 25 April 1928.
During this time frame my mother was corresponding with my father Elmer E. Dale at Fort
Warden, Port Townsend, WA. After the death of mom's father John Brown, mom came to Port
Townsend, WA., with Merritt and married my father, 4 June 1928.
Merritt lived with my folks till he enlisted in
the Army and was stationed at Francis E. Warren Army Base, Cheyenne, WY., 21 October 1938.
Thereafter my folks only saw Merritt twice, once
at Francis E. Warren Army Base (See letter dated 25 May 1939 of tracking Merritt by
letters from Merritt to mom). My brother John E. Dale recalls seeing Merritt at Fort Ord,
CA., but I dont have any evidence of it.
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�Paul and Phyllis Dale 1997-2009
Date this page was last edited
10/15/2011
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