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John R. Mayer Memorial Web Page


 

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John R. Mayer

September 16, 1952 - March 31, 1998

 


[Editor's Note: William L."Bill" Strong and Robert T."BoB" Strong & others proposed a memorial to the late John R. Mayer, revolving around his work. We had a discussion on the Rootsweb Strong-List about a memorial to John...This Memorial Page is the result, and continues in development. "BoB" Strong contributed information concerning an index of John's writing on the Rootsweb Strong-List; I volunteered space for a web page on my web site; and the general outline of our thought has been to build:

1) around an obituary article written by John's sister, Barbara Way,
2) references to John's home page and points of contact for obtaining published copies of his works;
3) appropriate comments about the significance of his writings to members of the Rootsweb Strong-List;
4) an index of his writings as a member of the Strong-List;
5) an index of writings between John and various individuals; and
6) a listing of persons who hold copies of his works with email addresses and links to the Outline of Extraneus page, and to Arapacana Publishing, Barbara Way's company which is publishing John Mayer's works.

Any further contributions and ideas for inclusion in this Memorial Page are welcome. They will be throughly discussed and reviewed to assure that they are in good taste, a true memorial, and helpful in preserving access to John's work.
(Contact David B. Strong through the Rootsweb Strong-List; Click for contact information.)

I - John Mayer, the Man: Who he was:

John Richard Mayer, age 45, died following an extended illness on Tuesday, March 31, 1998 in San Francisco, CA. Formerly of Saginaw, MI and Harrisburg, PA, John had lived in San Francisco for the past 20 years. He was born in Hillsboro, IL on Sept. 16, 1952 to Charles J. "Chop" and Floy M. (Strange) Mayer. After being an exchange student to Japan in 1969, he graduated from Arthur Hill High School in Saginaw, MI in 1970. While earning his undergraduate degree from the University of Michigan, majoring in Far Eastern Languages and Literature, he also attended Waseta University in Japan. He received his master's degree in Oriental Languages from the University of California, Berkley. He was the assistant manager of the Marubeni Corp., a trading company in San Francisco, for 14 years. John was a scholar, a genealogical researcher, and a gifted author. For all of his adult life, he researched the Strange family and wrote 12 books about them covering more than 900 years of history. So far, five of those books have been published and are available in the Library of Congress and the Family History Library in Salt Lake City, UT. He was considered a world-wide authority on the Strange family. He also wrote a genealogical dictionary which has yet to be published. John is survived by his parents of Plymouth, IN; a sister and her husband, Barbara and John Way; and their two children, his niece, Amanda, and his nephew, Jason, all of Saginaw. A memorial service was held in California. Those who so desire may make a memorial contribution in the name of John R. Strange Mayer to the San Francisco Aids Foundation, 10 United Nations Plaza, San Francisco, CA 94102. An abstract of the direct line of descent of John R. Mayer from Alexander Strange of Devonshire, England and New Kent County, Virginia was prepared by Robert T. Strong, Jr., from John's web site at Family Tree Maker. The Ancestor Chart is posted on The Strong Quest web site:John R. Mayer mini-GEDCOM John's autobiography appears on pages 460-461 of EXTRANEUS, Book XII, "Strange of the Carolinas".

II - Availability of Works by John R. Mayer:

John Mayer's books on the Strange family, the "Extraneus" volumes, (see: John R. Mayer's Outline of Extraneus) will continue to be available through Arapacana Publishing Co., originally established by John Mayer, and now operated by his sister, Barbara Way. This information is also available on the Strange Home Page by John R.Mayer , http://www.familytreemaker.com/users/m/a/y/John-R-Mayer/index.html Following John's death, Barbara Way indicated a desire to publish additional works by John, two of which were nearly ready for publication, and to see that his earlier "soft-cover" works, which John was self-publishing under the "Aracapana Press" psuedonem. She has been quite successful in accomplishing this task. Most of John Mayer's books should also be generally available through interlibrary loan from the Library of Congress; New York Public Library; Family History Library, Allen County Public Library (Fort Wayne, IN); the Alfred Sutro Library (San Francisco, CA); and several state libraries (Kentucky, Tennessee, Virginia, Maryland). =========================================================== From: "Barbara J. Way" Subject: JRM memorial Web Page Date: Wed, 3 Jun 1998 01:14:34 -0400 ... John's computer is a veritable treasure-trove of information. I've read so much of his work in the past few weeks -- it's just amazing. He was so organized and he kept everything. ... Thank you .... for helping John's work to live on. Since he had no children, his work is his living legacy. Best wishes, Email: Barb Way

III - Comments regarding the significance of his work:

John R. Mayer joined the Rootsweb Strong-List June 1, 1997. His introductory messages burst like a star shell over the internet, and they are inserted here, to give some feel for the scope and quality of his scholarship. They also speak to John's broad vision of the relationship between the surnames leStrange, Strange, Strang, Strong, and Stronge: ================================================== From: [email protected] ------- Forwarded Message Follows ------- Date: Sun, 1 Jun 97 19:44:21 UT From: "John R. Mayer" To: "Robert T. Strong" , "Bill Strong" Subject: Strange Home Page Dear Messrs. Strong: I just issued a 'subscribe' message for your newsletter, but the field was not long enough to list my web page. Please add to your web page list my Strange Home Page, given below. I am the great-grandson of Alexander Taylor Strange, who authored the first Strange genealogy in 1911, so I represent a Strange family that has been collecting Strange genealogies for something more than 86 years. In 1986, I published Extraneus: The Annals Quinquepartite of Strange Lives, and in 1992, I started to publish the second edition of Extraneus, which is now divided into 12 books. Here is a list of the five titles published between 1992 and 1996: Book V, Strange of Eastern America, 1993, xviii + 380 pages. Book IX, Strange of Balcaskie, 1996, xxxvi + 542 pages. Book X, The Alloway Strange, 1994, xxiv + 256 pages. Book XI, Strange of Blisland, 1995, xl + 708 pages. Book XII, Strange of the Carolinas, 1994, xxvi + 548 pages. Although I have written some chapters on Stronge of Tynan Abbey, et cetera, I have never delved very far into Strong and Stronge lineages, because Dwight and others seem to be handling Elder John Strong's line quite well. However, my preparation of Book IX, Strange of Balcaskie, would surely interest your readers, for it is a compendium of everything I have managed to learn about the family Strange of Balcaskie, and the various Strang families in Scotland, and Stronge in Northern Ireland. My great-grandfather held the opinion that the Scots-Irish family Strange / Strang / Stronge was connected to Strange, but I have developed a rather different view. I believe that a connection between Extraneus of England and Ireland (le Strange, L'Estrange, Strange) and the Scots-Irish family will be difficult and perhaps impossible to prove. Are you or any of your readers aware that Major Timothy Edmund Lumisden Strange was recognized by the Lord Lyon of Scotland as the head of your clan in 1994? I shall gladly put you in contact with Major Tim, because he patented his coat of arms (the three diamonds), his standard, pinon, et cetera, in 1994, and then patented a brand new TARTAN for Strange of Balcaskie in 1995. I actually have a tartan tie, and just received a pewter badge of the Scottish crest (the bunch of grapes and "Dulce quod utile."). I published some reproductions and patents in my book. I realize that the Irish achievements are a little different from Major Tim's, but these heraldic devices should interest your readers nonetheless, particularly the new tartan. Major Tim's line has pretty much died out, for he and his sons are just about the only ones left. I shall send him a print-out of your home page. [Editor's Note: In a later message dated July 24,1998, John advised of the address of ..."Major Timothy Strange of Balcaskie, Little Holme, Porton Road, Amesbury, Salisbury, Wiltshire SP4 7LL, United Kingdom. (John thought) Tim would be delighted to hear from anyone even remotely connected to the Strange of Balcaskie family, because most of his Strange kinsfolk are now dead, so he really has no living relatives representing the same Sir Robert lineage. He gave some thought to creating a Clan Association, but his senior line is so rarefied now, he did not rightly know who would join...."] (John continued in the introductory message): My main interest is the Extraneus family of England (two lions passant; not the three diamonds), so I chiefly specialize in le Strange of Hunstanton, L'Estrange of Westmeath, Strange of Virginia, and several families elsewhere, such as Canada, France, Australia, and South Africa. However, I shall gladly try to respond as best I can to any inquiries your readers might have regarding the oldest lineages antecedent to Stronge of Tynan Abbey. Your web page is marvelous, and I wish you the best in developing it. Very truly yours, John R. Mayer San Francisco, CA, USA Strange Home Page: http://www.familytreemaker.com/users/m/a/y/John-R-Mayer Extraneus =============================================== In a message dated July 6, 1997, John truly spread his scholarship for all to see: Date: Tuesday, July 08, 1997 12:28:56 AM From: IN:[email protected] Topic: STRANGE (mss. by John Mayer), Part 1 of 2 Three attempts to distribute this message via the Strong Mail List, on the Rootsweb List Server, have failed. My only guess is that the message, with my comments added, is too long, so I am subdividing it into two parts. This is Part I. Bob Strong, Moderator, Strong Mail List =============================================== ------- Forwarded Message Follows ------- Date: Sun, 6 Jul 1997 23:54:30 -0700 From: "Bob Strong, Moderator, Strong Mail List" ATTENTION: John Mayer Thank you for your analysis of the question of whether Strange and Strong may have a common heritage. Being a Stanley descendant, your comments about Stanley were also particularly interesting to me. I had never conceptualized any relationship between Stanley and Strange. When I originated the Strong Mail List in December 1996, my purpose in including Strange and Strang and Straughan, et al., was not so academic. Since these surnames have been at times confused with Strong, and vice versa, I felt that a comprehensive search for Strongs should also include these other Surnames. From time to time the Strong Mail List has discussed whether we wished to remain integrated with seemingly disparate Surnames or whether we wished to split into smaller Surname groups, including major Strong subdivisions. The subscribers to the Strong Mail List have stated with one voice that the group wishes to keep the group intact as it was created. Hmmm. Maybe we just don't like changing things! And maybe opinions will change as the Mail List grows in size and in traffic. [One person cancelled their subscription this week, citing the traffic as a reason. I personally was concerned that there had not been much new traffic--that is, until I downloaded the mail today, 6 July.] I agree there has been less confusion between Strange and Strong than there has been between Strang and Strong (look similar) or between Straughn, Straughan, Strawn and Strong (sound similar). The instance of "William Strange" is a good case study, though, as this William has been claimed by both Strange and Strong researchers. Regarding this William "Strange", was he age 18 when he embarked for the Virginia Colony or was he age 18 when the census was taken of the settlers who survived Indian attacks? Is one or the other explicitly stated in the records of the time? I have noted, for example, that the age of a person who embarked in the British Islands was usually stated in port records and/or ship records. Ages of "convicts" were often stated in court records or in records of the sale/auction of deported "convicts". Since the ship on which William "Strange" was transported was stated, wouldn't it be logical for his age to have come from the ship records? Robert T. (Bob) Strong ================================================= ------- Forwarded Message Follows ------- Date: Sun, 6 Jul 1997 06:49:24 -0700 From: "John R. Mayer" To: [email protected] Cc: "Barbara Jean Way" "Jacques LesStrang" Subject: Devolvements Strange Devolvements Strange and the Founding of Virginia In reply to the recent messages from Bob Strong, I have drafted here a few sketches that might be useful to anyone using the Strong web page. William Strange: Genealogists have never successfully identified William Strange, who arrived at Charles City with Sir George Yeardly in 1619, and we really do not know whether he survived and had children. Most Strange genealogists begin continuous reckoning from Blisland Parish, now New Kent County, VA, about 1677, because the various individuals recorded before that time have never been connected with any known lineages. William Strange's age has often been misunderstood, due to the poor choice of words in early transcripts. He was listed as eighteen years of age (born 1606) in the Muster Roll of 1624, but he arrived in 1619, when he would have been a servant of merely twelve or thirteen years of age. His tender age suggests that William Strange might have been an orphan, and this should not surprise us, because Londoners began to export their orphans to Virginia around the same time, 1618-1619. Strange Affinities with Talbot, Stanley, and West Many of the Strange connections to Virginia Colony are difficult to find and apprehend, because the researcher must look for alternative surnames and titles, such as the Governors West (Lord Delaware), Talbot (Earl of Shrewsbury), Stanley (Earl of Derby), et cetera. Most of the major le Strange and Strange lines patrilineal were extinct by the seventeenth century, and these other families (West, Talbot, Stanley, Murray, Drummond, et cetera) were descendants of the Strange, by marriage. The several colonial governors of Virginia Colony named West (Lords de la Warr) descended from Thomas Strange of Gloucester, through his daughter Elizabeth Strange. Two successive waves of the Black Plague in the fourteenth century (1340s and 1360s) effectively annihilated two generations of the heirs male of Strange of Blackmere, and therefore the honors of Blackmere merged with those of Talbot. The family Talbot inherited the Barony Strange of Blackmere, and thus we find that the Talbot Earl and Countess of Shrewsbury (alias Lord and Lady Strange) were listed as stockholders in Virginia, but that the surname or title Strange was nowhere explicitly mentioned. The family Stanley established the English devolution of the Barony Strange of Knokin, but this Stanley branch must be further distinguished from the Scottish devolution of the same English Barony Strange. The Murray Dukes of Atholl likewise claimed the same barony, so their claim was parallel to Stanley's claim, and the two Lords Strange were permitted to co-exist. Our first literary reference to a Stanley Lord Strange appears as a critical element in Shakespeare's Richard III, where Richard III detects the treachery of Thomas Stanley, and thereupon orders the execution of his child-hostage Lord Strange (Thomas' son George Stanley). Shakespeare apparently did not know that George Stanley had become Lord Strange jure uxoris (by his wife's right), years later, but who cares? The Bard's imagination seems to transcend the pedantry of us genealogists. The junior heirs male to the English Lordship Strange belong to the Stanley family, and perpetuate the title Earl of Derby. The Stanley heir apparent is customarily styled Lord Strange (as heir to the Barony Strange of Knokin). Shakespeare's plays were first performed by Strange's Men, who later became styled the King's Men or King's Players. The actors named Strange's Men were so called because their early patron was the heir apparent to the earldom of Derby, and thus styled Lord Strange. It was James I who extended royal patronage to the players, making them the King's Players. Presently, the senior Scottish heirs general (vs. the junior Stanley heirs male) to the English Lordship Strange are the Scottish family Drummond of Megginch, which has lately had a hilarious representative in the House of Lords, in the person of Lady Strange. She is a fortune-teller and astrologer, and has created small sensations on the floor of the House of Lords by making public pronouncements of her craft. A few years ago, the Drummond of Megginch Lady Strange owned the American flag from Fort Niagara, which one of her grandfathers Drummond had captured during the War of 1812 (1812-1815), and she sold it back to Fort Niagara for some $200,000. The flag was gigantic, and had to be transported in an especially large container, handled with cranes. The flag of Fort Niagara is believed to be one of the oldest surviving American flags, and perhaps the largest. Virginia Stockholders Connected to the Strange: Almost every major Strange lineage is represented among the signatures on the Third Virginia Charter, but most of the stockholding individuals connected to the family are known by names different from Strange, such as George Talbot Earl of Shrewsbury, or Stanley Earl of Derby. The Stanley heiress married the Earl of Huntingdon, and therefore we sometimes encounter cryptic notes about the Earl and Countess of Huntingdon (Lord and Lady Strange) having lived briefly in Virginia in 1620. The people actually surnamed Strange in Virginia must have come from junior or cadet Strange lines, and we suspect that several must have been younger sons, or even orphans, because they are terribly difficult to identify. One Virginia shareholder was John Strange in London, who once testified with Captain Smith to an altercation they had both witnessed at the Royal Exchange, but we have no idea who John Strange might have been. Some think he was the ship owner from Bideford, Devon, but there were several other John Stranges in London during the same period. The Devon Connection Most of the Strange residency along the East Coast of America can be traced to the ship owners and masters named Strange who were based in Bideford, Devon, and who traded with places as remote as Spain, Newfoundland, New England, Virginia, and Maryland. There was a large population of persons named Strange, Strang, Stronge, and Strong in Devon, and we have many reasons to believe that these Dumnonians were the predecessors of Strange of Virginia, and Alloway Strange of Virginia. One of the Strange ships was registered at Bideford, Devon, but was built in New England, and transported tobacco from Maryland, so we have a fairly convenient trading triangle that would seem to tie these Strange families together. The spellings Strange, Strang, and Strong all appeared in Devon, and some record transcripts show a bias to one spelling over another. A pair of matching Hearth Rolls will sometimes have mutually opposed spellings, such that one roll prefers the spelling Stronge, whereas the other prefers the spelling Strange, even when referring to the same families. It is not clear whether these consistent differences reflect problems in transcription, or contemporary spelling variations. We need to view our lineages from several perspectives, sometimes resorting to collateral relations, co-residence, and titles, instead of strictly blood-related and descending patrlinies. All of these connections between Virginia and Devon, Gloucester, and Lancaster tend to persuade me that persons named Strange in Virginia were related to the senior Strange lines of Knockyn, Salop, in western England. An East Anglian Connection Virginian societies were somewhat more eclectic, so we may even find some similar connections with the cadet family le Strange at Hunstanton Hall, Norfolk, in eastern England, or East Anglia. The translator and explorer Henry Spelman was traded to the Powhatan natives for one year, for the purpose of learning their language, but he died an ignonymous death while exploring the River Potomac. Interestingly, Henry Spelman was the son of the famous historian John Spelman, and his maternal grandfather was Nicholas le Strange, Baronet, of Hunstanton. These ruminations may not be directly pertinent to the subject of William Strange (1606), but I thought they might help, by providing some framework or background for discussing Stanley vis-a-vis Strange and Strong. The Two Families Strange: As far as I can discern, we are dealing with two families, namely Extraneus of England (1082) and Strange of Balcaskie (1362), but we have insufficient historical evidence to connect the two. The two families seem to have these permutations: EXTRANEUS (1086) The Brythonic family and its Ascendency in Ireland: Arms: Gules, two lions passant argent. Crest: Lion statant. Extraneus >le Strange >de Lestrange > Straunge >STRANGE>L'Estrange Salop - Aquitaine - Norfolk - Ireland (Westmeath & Dublin) ======================================================= End of Part 1 of 2 Parts. Continued in Part 2. John R. Mayer ==================================================== ------- Forwarded Message Follows ------- Part 2 of 2. Continued from Part 1. ===================================================== Date: Sun, 6 Jul 1997 06:49:24 -0700 From: "John R. Mayer" To: [email protected] Subject: Devolvements Strange ===================================================== STRANGE OF BALCASKIE (1362) The Scots-Irish family Arms: Chevron in pale with three lozenges. Crest: Bunch of grapes. STRANGE >Strang >Stronge >Straunge (but never the Latin or French spellings) Fifeshire - Lanarkshire - Northern Ireland (Tynan Abbey) - Ireland (Waterford) Strange Cadency and Variant Spellings; Given our findings, I suspect that the first authentic Strange record in Virginia is dated 1619 (actually 1624), and that the first authentic Strong records happen to date from roughly 1677-1698. Our main question would seem to be this: Were these two Virginian families closely related, or were they separate lineages with different origins? It is interesting to note that the spelling of the English surname Strange seldom changes, whereas the spelling of the Scottish or Scots-Irish surname seems to change by cadency. The senior line of Strange of Balcaskie proudly preserves the spelling Strange, but this spelling can rarely be found outside the senior Balcaskie stem. In Lanarkshire and elsewhere outside Fife, most of the families are styled Strang, and several of these Strang families have been proven to be branches of the ancient house of Strange of Balcaskie. In Ireland, we find that a cadet branch of Strange of Balcaskie established itself with the distinctive spelling Stronge of Tynan Abbey. Thus, the Scots-Irish family seems to have sometimes tampered with its spelling, as if to differentiate senior and junior lines of descent. The Scots commonly used the spellings Strange and Strang, whereas their Irish cadets used the spelling Stronge. When the Scottish Strangs from Glasgow established themselves in Virginia and North Carolina, from 1790s onward, they took steps to legally change their spelling from Strang to Strange by 1836. The same Strang > Strange family then provided our country with the services of U.S. Senator Robert Strange of North Carolina, whose arms and crest of grapes were identical with those of Strange of Balcaskie. We also have an isolated Strange family at Waterford, along the southern coast of Ireland, and this family too would seem to preserve the principles of Balcaskie-type spelling. Our Double Problem: Thus, we are faced with a double problem. Exactly who arrived in Virginia? Exactly who were the Stranges of Devon? Are we seeing in Virginia two unrelated families named Strange and Strong arriving from different places? Were the Stranges of Devon ultimately connected to the Scots-Irish Strange / Strang / Stronge family, or to the English Extraneus / le Strange / L'Estrange family? An eighteenth-century historian suggested that the Strange family of Bideford, Devon, had originally come from Ireland, and therefore we have cause to wonder how the family got to Ireland in the first place. Did they come from the north-south migration of Scotsmen into Ireland, or were they dispatched from the English mainland as Tudor occupiers of the Pale? We know for sure that the younger son Richard le Strange of the cadet family le Strange was deliberately sent from Norfolk to Westmeath, Ireland, to establish an English plantation. However, his le Strange > L'Estrange family seems to have been thoroughly Anglo-Irish, and completely unconnected to the Scots-Irish Stronge of Tynan Abbey, as well as the isolated Strange family at Waterford. Thus, even if we discover specific routes of migration across the Atlantic, we still must solve these questions about ultimate origins. Throughout British history, we can trace the separate and parallel activities of (1) Extraneus of England and (2) Strange of Balcaskie, and our extant records seem to show us that these two families distributed themselves in overlapping patterns. Thus, we may fairly easily detect a dichotomy between Extraneus and Strange of Balcaskie in such places as London, Ireland, and Wessex. Elsewhere and otherwise, the two families were consistently distinct and exclusive of one another. A Strange Encounter Between Aliens Strange: To date, we have discovered only one piece of evidence that directly connects the English family Extraneus with the Scottish family Strange of Balcaskie, and this was a solitary letter written by Thomas Lumisden Strange to the Stanley Earl of Derby in the nineteenth century. Derby's steward responded to Thomas Lumisden Strange with an exposition of the Stanley Lords Strange at Knowsley, Lancaster, but this exchange of letters did not show any blood relationship between the two lines. Thus, we happen to know that the Victorians were just as mystified and perplexed, as we are, by the Scots-Irish family Strange / Strang / Stronge. Genealogists have often been inclined to associate the English and Scottish lineages with one another, but we have never found the means or rationale to do so. It is highly significant to note that the spellings Extraneus (Latin Chancery style), le Strange, de Lestrange, and L'Estrange are peculiar to the English, French, and Anglo-Irish families, but that we NEVER find such spelling variants among the Scottish and Scots-Irish Strange / Strang / Stronge families, descending from the Balcaskie house. If ever there were a link between the Balcaskie family Strange / Strong / Stronge, and le Strange of Salop and Norfolk, it must lie buried somewhere in the forgotten past. We have carefully examined every available reference to persons named Extraneus or le Strange who served in the Scottish Wars of Edward I and Edward II, but have no records to show us how or why one of these Englishmen would have settled in Fifeshire. Frankly, I doubt that historical records would even exist to tell us this part. Both families are quite ancient, and any common ancestor would have had to have migrated to Scotland in the thirteenth or fourteenth centuries. Furthermore, we must live with the possibility that Strange of Balcaskie somehow arose independently of Extraneus of Mercia and East Anglia. Speculations Perhaps Reckless: It seems somewhat incongruous to have such surnames as Strong and L'Estrange co-mingled or associated on the same web page, because the two names have had very different histories. Any researcher who would incline to connect the Scots-Irish family with the English should realize that the senior English lines were fairly small, and that the earliest families Extranei of England met with complete extinction at very early dates (1360s, 1592, 1780s). Heirs male to the heritages de le Strange became so rarefied in England, that their Styleman descendants had to resurrect the surname le Strange by Royal License in the 1830s, and this distaff re-creation of the surname lasted from 1832 to 1994, and is now extinct. The House of Lords commenced a thorough examination of the Strange lineages in the mid 1800s, when the peerage Hastings was claimed by three parties, because one of the claimants was Henry L'Estrange Styleman le Strange of Hunstanton. Henry eventually lost his bid for the peerage, to Jacob Astley. However, the investigation seemed to confirm what genealogists had concluded already: that the heirs male to the senior Strange lineages were conclusively extinct, and that succession would need to depend upon female links to the Hunstanton heir general (not an heir male). The heir general had assumed the surname le Strange by license rather than by paternal blood rights, so his claim had to be declined. Therefore, anytime we speak of persons named Strange who migrated to the New World, we may fairly safely assume that we are dealing exclusively with fairly junior or minor Strange lineages, descending from progenitors who must have been mainly younger sons, or orphans. Given the parameter of six generations as a limit of kinship, we may surmise that these cadet branches of the English family were very remote from the sucessional lines. The Family Named L'Estrange (1640): The family L'Estrange (new spelling dating from 1636-1640, and never earlier) survived as part of the English Ascendency in Ireland, and its members generally began their migrations to New York and Pennsylvania, roughly from the 1830s through the 1890s, but mainly during the Famine. The surname L'Estrange was a fictive creation, for it was the faux-French invention of the Father of the English Press, Sir Roger L'Estrange, Kt. (ne le Strange), who started using it during the reign of Charles I. He presumably adopted the surname around 1636-1640, ostensibly to flatter to French sensibilities of the royal Stuart family. Because Sir Roger became Licenser of the Press, his name was known everywhere, and therefore the Norfolk and Irish families le Strange found it fashionable and preferred to use the nouveau spelling L'Estrange. When Martha Washington ne Lee was settling the affairs of her late husband Custis, the inventory recorded that the Custis library contained two copies of Sir Roger L'Estrange's translation of Aesop's Fables, so one was given to Martha's son John Custis, and one was assigned to George Washington. Thus, we may reasonably postulate that the book was once stored in the library of Mount Vernon. Modern Representatives: It should be helpful to remind ourselves of our several contemporaries or near-contemporaries who happen to represent the patrilineages that concern us. Two fairly distinguished, modern representatives of the family L'Estrange were Alice Caroline Acheson ne Stanley (1895), wife of U.S. Secretary of State Dean Gooderham Acheson, and Alice's elder sister Sarah L'Estrange Frantz ne Stanley (1894-1967), alias Sali Frantz, the Michigan primitive artist whose delightful paintings resemble those of Grandma Moses. The celebrated golfer and sports commentator Curtis Strange comes from some Virginian Strange family, but we have yet to learn whether he rightly belongs to Strange, or Alloway Strange. Former U.S. Secretary of Defense Robert Strange McNamara stands as an example of an Alloway Strange descendant, made good, albeit repentantly good. Her Royal Highness Princess Diana of Wales directly descends from Elder John Strong of Massachusetts, and likewise made good, made very good indeed. Most of the remaining representatives of these lineages are fairly obscure and pedestrian folks, who trade messages on the Internet, and watch the sitcoms. Conclusions In colonial times, the families Strong and Strange existed side-by-side in both New England (from about 1634) and Virginia (from 1698), but we have no evidence to connect these parallel families with one another. Therefore, I tend to regard each family separately, and I further tend to believe they derived from different families. The various references to the Stanley families might seem to be fairly compelling, but they might well be deceptive or illusory, because genuine examples of grand alliance systems are fairly rare among Anglo-American and Scots-Irish families. The British seemed to prefer simple Christian marriages, with no special or fixed, positive rules for intermarriage, but plenty of negative rules against incest, so the several Stanley-Strange connections probably resulted by happenstance, rather than marital strategy. We may know of a Strong-Stanley marriage or a Stanley- L'Estrange marriage, but this should not connote any particular associations with the Stanley Lords Strange, nor with the Murray, Drummond, and Drummond of Megginch Lords and Ladies Strange. All of these families were fairly large and widely dispersed, and then brought together again by the capitalistic enterprises and convergences known as Virginia and New England. Therefore, the chance of consanguinity cannot be completely rejected, and yet cannot be freely accepted either. I think it best that we keep the Strange and Strong families independent of one another in colonial times, unless we can find more specific reasons to relate them. The two families might have co-resided in the same parishes, and might have even shared some forenames (John, William); but they also had forenames distinct onto themselves (George Strong vs. Mitchell Strange) that the opposite lineage never used. John R. Mayer Strange Home Page: http://www.familytreemaker.com/users/m/a/y/John-R-Mayer =================================================== (Later, John went on to add): Date: Tuesday, July 15, 1997 2:43:38 PM From: John R. Mayer To: (Contact David B. Strong through the Rootsweb Strong-List) ....What I intended to say is that the EXTRANEUS family of Knockin is the older family (1082), whereas STRANGUS of Balcaskie (1362) is the younger family, related or not. Your principle of interchangeability of the names Strong, Stronge, Strange, and Strang seems to hold true among the STRANGUS-type families connected to Balcaskie, in Scotland, Northern Ireland, and perhaps counties Waterford and Limerick, Ireland. However, there seem to be no such crossovers between the EXTRANEUS-type families named le Strange, Strange, L'Estrange, de Lestrange, et cetera, and the STRANGUS-type names, after Strange of Balcaskie's inception in 1362. Therefore, I am inclined to conclude that any connection between the two lineages would need to have occurred sometime before 1362. ....................................................................................................... [Editor's Note: As time went on, John began to moderate his opinion regarding the distinctive separation between the surnames Strong and Strange.... See Martha Strong's comment "John and I were getting excited because we felt like finally we were getting the proof we needed to connect the Strange/Stronge surname", below.] ........................................................................................................ (John's message continues:) I am frankly delighted that the surnames Strong and Strange appear in the same web page and email list, for it suits my purposes just fine. My comment was intended to address the fact that Strong and L'Estrange were simply juxtaposed without further qualification or differentiation. .... Best regards, John R. Mayer Strange Home Page: http://www.familytreemaker.com/users/m/a/y/John-R-Mayer ========================================================= Editor's Note:John's brief membership in the STRONG-List produced many more messages of like quality and insight. The reader is directed to the index in section IV of this web page for assistance in finding his work here. In November, 1997, I met with John Mayer at his home in San Francisco. At that time, I realized John was quite ill. He had previously made a slight reference to his poor health in an email message. However, John did not wish to talk about his condition. He preferred to persevere in the face of his illness, doing the things he loved most, which were the intellectual persuits of research and writing in the fields of literature and genealogy. My last vision of John from that occasion was of him perched on a stool behind his small writing desk, pen in hand, commencing to parse through yet more research materials, looking for genealogical data and clues. I will miss his brilliant mind, and know that his was a loss which we Strong(e) and Strang(e) researchers will mourn for a long time. I sincerely believe that John had one of the best overall "pictures" of how the various Strong(e) and Strang(e) genealogical lineages fit together... although the inclusion of the Strong surname in the research was relatively new to him. His enormous compilation of research was a great asset to us all, and will be sorely missed. We will need to do much work to bring us to the same level of knowledge that John already possessed, and we have now lost. (Contact David B. Strong through the Rootsweb Strong-List; Click for contact information.)
========================================================== From: Juanita Alloway; Date: 13 Apr 1998 12:41:26 EDT Subject: Re: John R. Mayer (b.Sept 16, 1952- d.March 31, 1998) I was shocked indeed when I read of John Mayer's death . He and I have corresponded extensively the past 8-10 yrs. concerning research into the ALLOWAY STRANGE family. I had published a query in the GENEALOGICAL HELPER MAGAZINE a number of years ago when John saw it and contacted me since I had said we were at a standstill in our research of the ALLOWAY family. He told me that he had his great- grandfather Alexander Taylor Strange's research papers that had been published in a little booklet and that he was wanting to enlarge it with later findings. He asked me to send him some of our findings which I did and the letters and documents snowballed between us. He was skilled in writing and I was glad to have been able to send him the information we'd accumulated as I did want to get it into a permanent form. John ended up publishing the majority of the material I sent him in his Vol. X, THE ALLOWAY STRANGE Alva Extranea de Virginia. It was gratifying to see the collection of bits and pieces of our research organized into a published book. He was a constant encourager and I felt he was a "friend", although I never met him. I did talk with him on the telephone, but most of our contact was via the US mail. His talent and literary ability will be missed and I extend my sympathies to his family. ...................................................................................................................... Date: Mon, 1 Jun 1998 15:57:17 +0000 Subject: JOHN MAYER Memorial Page I just finished reading John's memorial webpage as recently posted. I think it's great and a good start ...., he included a picture of himself in his volume entitled STRANGE OF BLISLAND on pg. xxx. ... I've been scanning some of the earlier correspondence this afternoon that John and I exchanged and was reading one dated 5 Mar 1988 in which he was thanking me for sending him some of our research material. In it, he said: "your letter contained several interesting statements and I would like to request copies of particular items, provided you have the time and inclination to provide them." "..............I view my role to be more that of a writer and editor than of a genealogist and I try to make this clear in my work by crediting others with the original reserch. Of course, there is plenty of my own research in the book, but I have purposely limited the scope of my work to compiling and organizing the hundreds of primary and secondary records about Stranges, simply to achieve a uniform and reliable reference work. This has never really been attempted before, and the project is starting to become far more complex than I had ever imagined. The first edition of the text was prepared only for the purpose of creating a working draft that could be checked and verified by other genealogists, like yourself. I have been engaged in amateur genealogy for some twenty years, from 1968 when I was 16 years old. The present manuscript is the result of some three years' work, from 1985 when I visited England. My actual, intended purpose cannot be achieved until I successfully index and revise the first edition. I intend to write a series of essays, portions of which appear in the first edition, describing the social and literary history of the family. "I have a Master of Arts in Japanese Language and Literature and a very strong academic background in literature, philosophy and anthropology. Therefore, the essays I plan will hopefully contain observations and conclusions that may be applied to occidental society in general, not just to Stranges. Your letter was enlightening and I hope the coming months will occasion more correspondence between us. I am particularly eager to hear your comments and corrections on the text of EXTRANEUS. Thank you very much for your help. (Sgd.) John R. Mayer" He was always generous in his kind remarks about any info I sent him. I'd mentioned to him about reading the book his gr grandfather (Alexander Taylor Strange) published in 1911 and commented I felt some of the information was incorrect - from our research. Included in the above letter, he said: "There certainly are plenty of errors in my great grandfather's book. In passing I might note that his book, several of his notebooks and a large pile of correspondence on Strange genealogy, covering the years circa 1900-1965, were given to me by my grandmother, Floy Belle Cannon Strange. She just celebrated her 102nd birthday on Valentine's day and it is to her that I dedicated the book............" I'm sure his books, drafts, writings, and research compiled during these past ten years could fill a good size room. Some day perhaps his family will offer them to a good research library, maybe the Family History Center in Salt Lake City where thousands can benefit from John's dedication to this project. Juanita Alloway ============================================================ From: Lin Hillis; Date: Tuesday, April 14, 1998 6:23 PM Subject: Re: John R. Mayer's writings... A memorial??? Your message, and others regarding John R. Mayer, have been forwarded to me by Marilyn King. Like everyone else, I was shocked and deeply saddened to learn of John's death. He has been on my mind the last couple of weeks and this tragic news caught me completely off guard. I began corresponding via snail mail with John in January 1993. Not having a computer at the time, I sent him all my documentation, hand written notes, and hand written group sheets. He graciously took the time to decipher my handwriting and transcribe it, publishing the finished product in OCT 1993 in EXTRANEUS Book V Strange of Eastern America. The chapter on my immediate line is entitled Strange of Effingham and Wayne. I purchased ten copies and gave them as Christmas gifts that year to other family members. I'm sure there are many people who corresponded with John via snail mail that are unaware of his passing. I would encourage everyone, to contact those folks they know and those they have referred to John, to take a few moments and let those people know, so they can share their thoughts and rememberances with John's extended family. I plan on going thru my archived e-mail messages and contacting the people who queried me. Thank you for co-ordinating all our mutual efforts to pay proper tribute to John for all that he contributed to our lives, both as a friend, and genealogist. Perhaps, it would be appropriate to include some selected paragraphs from correspondence we received from John? Lin Hillis Garland, TX =============================================================== From: (Contact Stuart Baillie Strong through the Rootsweb Strong-List; Click for contact information.) Date: 13 Apr 1998 17:22:12 EDT Subject: Re: John R. Mayer (b.Sept 16, 1952- d.March 31, 1998) I am very sad to hear that John R. Mayer passed away. My heartfelt sympathies to his sister and family. John had been extremely helpful to me with my researches into my Strong and Strang ancestors in Shetland, UK. A few months ago, John had sent me by snail mail a special chapter he made up for me called "Strong of the Shetland Isles." We had agreed to combine his information and mine. Due to other pressures I had asked John to delay our discussions until later. Oh how I wish now I had not put off these discussions! I would be very glad to continue working on this one chapter of John's. Would this fit in with your ideas below? Regards Email: (Contact Stuart Baillie Strong through the Rootsweb Strong-List; Click for contact information.)
[Editor's Note: Baillie Strong worked with Barbara Way to finalize this chapter as part of the 3rd Edition of Strange of Balcaskie. ========================================================= From: Jerry L'Estrange; Date: 14 Apr 1998 00:03:04 EDT Subject: John R. Meyer Like everyone else, I was shocked and saddened by John's death. I met John via the Strong list early last year. I was thrilled to discover that he was researching the L'Estrange family. John was a very scholarly man. I was very impressed with his professionalism. His kindness was unstinting! We formed an alliance whereby I would send John whatever info I gleamed, and he would provide guidance on the meaning and connections that info had to the L'Estrange roots. Most of all he encouraged and inspired me to persevere in my quest. I will surely miss him. I will be happy to contribute whatever I have to a memorial for John. Jerry L'Estrange ============================================================ From: Virginia (Strong) Davidson Date: 11 Apr 1998 10:20:50 EDT Subject: Re: John R. Mayer (b.Sept 16, 1952- d.March 31, 19 My deepest sympathy is extended to my "cuz's" family. Don't know of a direct connection, but my feeling is, in genealogy, we are all cuzs. Virginia (Strong) Davidson =============================================================== From: LaRee Nooner Date: 14 Apr 1998 02:12:38 EDT Subject: John R. Mayer It is unbelieveable how you can become so attached to someone you don't even know except through their writing!! The spirit of John came through in his writing and I cried when I learned of his absence. It must be that there are family connections and feelings that exist among our relatives on this list. Even though many of us are no closer in relationship than distant cousins, the feeling of family permeates and creates unseen bonds of affection for each other. My thanks, love and appreciation go out to each of you for the goodness, kindness and respect I observe from your messages. I am SO GLAD to have found you all!! I will miss John!! LaRee Nooner ================================================================ From: Sheri O'Brien 11 Apr 1998 16:01:28 EDT I am so very sorry for this loss. As should any present or future researcher! When I first began my research, I had little more than the names of my grandparents. I most fortunately stumbled across John's name and sent him an email. He was so helpful! He gave me instructions that a beginner could understand and I am sure exhausted himself trying to fit my line into his existing research. John continued to write after we had established my family group and sent me several chapters out of several books. John must have been the most generous person I have come across in my short experience with genealogy. I will miss him, and will cherish the works he sent me and the help he gave me. Sheri O'Brien http://www.freeyellow.com/members2/sherirn/index.html ======================================================= From: (Contact Russell Laird through the Rootsweb Strong-List; Click for contact information.)
Date: 7 Apr 1998 14:00:10 EDT Subject: Re: John Mayer .....Thanks for the update. I'm still speechless. I didn't know John beyond the scope of our list, but developed quite an admiration for his work and input. I'll miss him. Russell Laird ======================================================== From: William L. "Bill" Strong Date: 7 Apr 1998 21:17:06 EDT Subject: Re: John Mayer Hi Dave. I just returned home after an absence of about 5 days. In my 50 or so new messages, I was sad to learn of John Mayer's passing. We will miss his valuable contributions. Perhaps some type of memorial would be in order? Anyway, I was just checking e-mail for the first time in a few days and wanted to respond to John Mayer's passing. Sad news. ................................ Date: 11 Apr 1998 11:33:32 EDT Subject: Re: John R. Mayer (b.Sept 16, 1952- d.March 31, 19 I would like to echo Dave Strong's words about John R. Mayer. I never had the priviledge of meeting John, but we exchanged numerous messages via both snail mail and E-mail regarding Strong/Strang/L'Estrange genealogy. His insight and contributions were second to none and he will surely be missed. I hope that we can find a way for John's work to live on. I like Dave's suggestion of a memorial in the form of an on-line index of John's writings. For now, I have updated the link to John's "Strange Home Page".
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IV - An Index to the writings of John R. Mayer on the Strong-List:

The following is paraphrased from two messages from: Robert T. (Bob) Strong, Jr.: ............................................................................... Date: Friday, April 17, 1998 11:09 AM Subject: John R. Mayer's Message: Index, 1997 Attached a listing of all of the Late John R. Mayer's messages as archived at Rootsweb for the Strong-List. Go to An index to John R. Mayer's writings on the Rootsweb Strong-List. The listing is for 1997 only, and is in two parts. The first part consisting of 86 records resulted from the search query "[email protected]". The second part, consisting of an additional 17 records, resulted from the search query "[email protected]". Unfortunately, the "hotlinks" do not operate offine, so it is necessary to perform a new search to get information more than the Subject lines. This is the Rootsweb archive index of the public messages on Strong-L from and to [email protected]. To initiate your own search for one of John's messages, enter the URL for the opening page for searches of any Rootsweb mail list, which is: http://newsearches.rootsweb.com/cgi-bin/listsearch.pl
and give appropriate search words. Two separate searches for "johnrmayer" or "johnrichardmayer" should identify all of his messages as these were his IDs for his Intenet Service Provider. This could be narrowed by using his name with one or more specific surnames, connected by "and", such as "johnrmayer and L'Estrange".
.......................................................................................................... Subject: John R. Mayer Memorial Web Page Date: Mon, 1 Jun 1998 11:53:52 -0400 The 1998 messages are now online at Rootsweb, so John's messages for the last couple of months of his life could be listed. At this point, I don't think it wise to try to make a compendium of his actual messages, as the message can easily be accessed at Rootsweb. I don't know any way of linking an index of John's messages to the Rootsweb archives..... Robert T. (Bob) Strong, Jr. (now deceased) ========================================================= From: Tracy Vickers Date: Mon, 01 Jun 1998 23:44:05 -0700 Subject: Re: John R. Mayer Memorial Web Page Just as a note: Much of the data on my shipping pages came from John. His name is referenced where appropriate. (Contact Tracy Vickers through the Rootsweb Strong-List; Click for contact information.)
Web Sites: Ship Captains Strange Strange/Strong Passenger Lists

V - An Index to Various writings by John R. Mayer Held by Individuals which were not archived on the Rootsweb Strong-List:

From: Lin Hillis April 14, 1998 I'm sure there are many people who corresponded with John via snail mail that are unaware of his passing. I would encourage everyone, to contact those folks they know and those they have referred to John, to take a few moments and let those people know, so they can share their thoughts and rememberances with John's extended family. I plan on going thru my archived e-mail messages and contacting the people who queried me. Thank you.... for co-ordinating all our mutual efforts to pay proper tribute to John for all that he contributed to our lives, both as a friend, and genealogist. Perhaps, it would be appropriate to include some selected paragraphs from correspondence we received from John? Lin Hillis Garland, TX

VI - References to copy holders of his books:

[Editor's Note: Various of us have copies of John's books or chapters of certain books. For example, I have Extraneus, Book IX, Strange of Balcaskie, 2nd Ed., "Strange of Balcaskie and the Clans Outlandish Strang and Stronge... Strangus de Caledonia et Hibernia et America", 2nd Edition, copywrited 1996, by John R. Mayer. I also have a copy of Strange of Knock Recket from Book VIII; as well as a draft copy of the Bibliography Proper for Extraneus, consisting of two columns each of closely written references on 140 pages, of which John wrote in a letter to me dated January 30, 1998, "The compilation is actually a syllabus of all my readings, and therefore I suspect it includes many items unrelated (to) our subject Strange/Strong. It has many general titles pertaining to anthropology, kinship, sociology, and the like, which I have used for other projects, such as "The Alphabetary"..... I have two other important bibliographies of le Strange family documents, but I am in the midst of extensively revising both, because I have resumed working on the household accounts. If you raise the subject again in the future, I shall mail you these other portions. Regards, John R. Mayer".

[John Mayer's Bibliography is now on-line, as is a very interesting Glossary, thanks to the efforts of Barbara Way. The Glossary is probably a "must" for folks who might be non-plussed by John's penchant for using Latin terminology. John actually became fascinated by the Latin language as he poured through ancient church documents, and took up a study of the language!] Below, Juanita Alloway mentions John's "Vol. X, THE ALLOWAY STRANGE, Alva Extranea de Virginia", and Sheri O'Brien mentions John having sent various chapters to her. I suggest that all who have received ANY of John's chapters or books notifiy me, with exact titling, which materials they have. I will then make note of the fact that each responding person has those particular books or chapters in the Chapter Outline of Extraneus which I published on my website with John's consent and cooperation.... see: Outline of Extraneus. This may in a small way help researchers find the materials as needed. Over time, I have intended all along to make mention of John's works in quotes, references or footnotes in my own writing. I will do so when and as I can. Those, such as Baillie Strong, who have had their own contacts with John and wish to bring some writing or other work to completion and possible publication should feel free to do so... citing John's work where appropriate. All of this, I believe, falls within certain academic freedoms enjoyed by all. By indexing, publicizing, and quoting John's works, with appropriate comments about John's contributions, we will do much to memorialize him. We need to work NOW to collect what we can of his writing.
(Contact David B. Strong through the Rootsweb Strong-List; Click for contact information.) ============================================================== From: Juanita Alloway 4/13/98 - As suggested above, I'm glad to share the info I have about John's publications. I have large folder of John's letters that he'd written me over the years, from the time he really launched out into this project of publishing the STRANGE family history. I have a no. of his rough drafts. He also sent me the first copy of an extensive Index he'd made before his first book was published. But after he did that he changed the format of his book and started over with another approach. The final books put into print, which I have are: EXTRANEUS, Book V - Strange of Eastern America EXTRANEUS, Book X - The Alloway Strange, Alva Extranea de Virginia (which by the way, he sent to me as a "Complementary Book" because of the "Alloway" info I'd sent him over the years) EXTRANEUS, Book XI - Strange of Blisland EXTRANEUS, Book XII - Strange of the Carolinas (John's autobiography is on pg. 460-461 of this volume) John's picture is on page xxx of EXTRANEUS, Book XI, "Strange of Blisland" with the following: "For there is nothing else I can devise and invent to please you: everything is always the same. If your body is not already withering with years and your limbs worn out and languid, yet everything remains the same, even if you shall go on to outlive all generations, and even more if you should be destined never to die. Lucretius De Rerum Natura" I'd be glad to share the information I have with anyone interested. He was generous in doing that himself. He wrote his final message to me just before Christmas: ----------------------------------------------------------- "I have been intending to write you, because two additional lines of the Alloway Strange came to light this year, and they include some descendants of Captain James Logan Strange. I am working on one of the lines this week, and shall aim to inform you of the additions at some future date. Best of luck to you on this Strong query. The Strongs have some very capable folks to help you. I am still avidly searching for possible Alloway Strange origins in the Devon, Somerset, Dorset area. John R. Mayer" ----------------------------------------------------------------- Juanita Alloway =========================================================== (Contact Martha F.B. Strong through the Rootsweb Strong-List; Click for contact information.)
Date: 14 Apr 1998 14:26:50 EDT Subject: John Mayer Material Dear Dave, I have a chapter by John on George Strange's family in England. We were working on it. George Strange had a daughter or grandaughter who married John Hill here in NE. Her name was Elizabeth Strong (actually Strange). John and I were excited at finding a person here with both names. I would be happy to share what was sent to me. ' John deserves a memorial and more. ............................................................................................................. Date: Monday, June 01, 1998 2:26 PM From Extraneus, Book IV, Strange of Wessex and the Saxon Shore, here are the chapters of what I have: Strange of Littleham by Bideford 1519 Devon: Stoke Damerel - Hartland - Littleham by Bideford - Biddeford & Virginia pp. 187 - 213 John and I discovered this family also came to New England and we believe that there are descendants Elizabeth Strong(Strange m. John Hill of Boston) Strange of the River Exe 1555 Devon - Tiverton - Bickleigh-near-Exeter - Rewe-by-Exeter - Poltimore - Heavitree - Exeter - Clyst St. George pp.261-298 Strange of Someret Proper 1547 - 1831 Places Elsewhere than the Creation of Avon in 1974 pp. 239 - 254 I also have some of the email messages. John and I were getting excited because we felt like finally we were getting the proof we needed to connect the Strange/Stronge surname. We were in the proccess of combining our research. One of the conclusions we came to is that the name changed because of accents and the way people spelled names as they heard them. Whatever I can do to help let me know. (Contact Martha F.B. Strong through the Rootsweb Strong-List; Click for contact information.)
========================================================== From: Linda Strange Kielbowicz Date: 14 Apr 1998 18:21:56 EDT Subject: Re: John R. Mayer's writings... A memorial??? I would like to help in any way I can for John's work to continue. I have Extraneus, Book XI, Strange of Blisland, revised second edition. Would be happy to share. ========================================================== From: Sheri O'Brien Subject: John R. Mayer Memorial Web Page Date: Tue, 2 Jun 1998 00:53:10 -0500 .... very pleased with the layout of the memorial page. ......... a wonderful job of presenting what a generous person and fantastic researcher John was. I have, for the last hour been going through the documents that John sent me. (I spent at least twenty minutes of that time crying when I found a package I had ready to mail to John when I received the note that he had passed away.) Anyway, I have the following from Extraneus, Book V, "Strange of Eastern America": A draft of "Strange Distaffs of Faith and Love, 1771-1983." (Strange Devolutions to Faith, Love, Smith, Miller, Nye, Schreck, Cotner, Wright, Chittenden, Brown, Wall, Vail, Alves, Wheeler, Eastin, & Dowers: Strange Affinations with Ash, Llwewllin, Harrel, Bramble, Padgett, Ramsey, Williams, Sharum, Young, Lents, Jackson, Backs, & Stewart: Maryland - Kentucky - Indiana (This is the draft we were currently working on, the package I have contained some corrections and additions.) A draft of Lin Hillis' research, edited by John, "Extraneus, Book V, Strange of Eastern America." Strange and Ash. A draft of Strange of Effingham and Wayne, 1812 - 1979 Kentucky - Indiana - Illinois - Missouri An updated draft of Strange Distaffs of Faith and Love, 1771 - 1813. These are the drafts I have in my possession. I also found this note from John: 3 June 1997 Dear Sheri, You have me stumped. I should be able to get the chapter "Strange of Effingham and Wayne" mailed by tomorrow, but I have compared the names you gave me against those in the chapter, and I do not spot any similarities at all. I have started to think that your H. Silus Strange must have arrived at Clay County, IL, from some other Strange line, but I have not a clue which one. I took the more unusual names, such as Lloyd Strange, Delbert Strange, and Wheeler, and ran some searches through the manuscripts, but did not find anything very conclusive. The Virginian families had branches that migrated through Kentucky, Ohio, and Indiana, so you might be connected to Strange of Virginia, or even Alloway Strange of Virginia. The name Lloyd recurred sometimes in Strange of Virginia (Books 11 and 12). The name Delbert recurred in Strange of Balcaskie (Book), The Alloway Strange (Book 10), and Strange of Virginia (Books 11 and 12). The chapter I am sending you came from Strange of Eastern America (Book V), which is a very large family of mainly Catholic Stranges from Maryland, who chiefly settled in middle and southern Indiana. The search for Wheeler was fairly meaningless, because it happens to be a fairly popular surname, but it did appear in De Lestrange of Aquitaine (Book 2). This is an extremely ancient family, and I believe one branch became Huguenot refugees who settled mainly in New Jersey and New York. Most of them have spelled their surname Strang, but a few individuals adopted the spelling Strange, and some branches are known to have migrated to Pennsylvania, Ohio, and even Illinois. I am disappointed, Sheri, because I usually have better luck than this. My inability to connect your people with some known Strange lineage will surely annoy me, so I can imagine I will make some more attempts to find the relationship we seek. If you uncover any more details, such as specific places, dates, names, et cetera, please inform me, because a future message from you will surely give me the impetus to conduct another search. Your line of descent is fairly young compared to the people I usually record, so perhaps it is not so surprising to find no connections. Practically all of my biographies happen to antedate 1900. Have you any remembrance or record of the forename Sylvester, or Cylvester? The name recurs in a couple of Strange families, and I believe it is related to the name Silus. Anyway, please examine the chapter, and let me hear from you again with your comments. Thanks again for giving me the opportunity to study your line, Sincerely, John R. Mayer This letter shows not only the kind heart of John, but also his enormous knowledge. I was in awe for days after receiving this note. John was the first serious researcher I met on the internet, and he was truly SERIOUS! He had never met me, had nothing to gain, and yet took his very valuable time and effort to help me place my line within his existing research. John sent me several more letters with research hints and sent me in the right direction. I really do miss him, and our correspondance. Excuse my jabbering on, I guess I have gotten carried away. If you would like to post the preceding books, I would be happy to share the information. If anyone would like a copy, just ask them to contact me. Sheri O'Brien Web Site: Sheri's Web Page ========================================================== From: Marna L. Clemons Date: 13 Apr 1998 22:05:32 EDT I would like to be included in any planned memorial to John Mayer. Depending on the form the memorial takes, I will contribute as I am able. I have the second edition of John Mayer's EXTRANEUS Book XI, Strange of Blissland. My particular line of research focus and research interest is the STRANGE families of Edmonson County, KY (listed in Book XI as STRANGE of Mammoth Cave). I would be happy to help anyone researching these families and you may list me on your website as willing to do so. Thank you, sincerely, Marna L. Clemons ========================================================= From: Karen Rinnert Parsons Date: 14 Apr 1998 11:27:36 EDT I think the passing of one of "us" is sadness for 'all of us' and Tracy, what an elegant way of putting it for all of us....Thanks! And while I still am working on my own line conection (Rev John Strong) and always interested in hearing from any of the Elizabeth Strong-Joseph Parsons Esq line(my husbands), I've truly enjoyed all the notes from all of you..and John's in particular. This medium is like reading a living breathings history book!!! So thanks Tracy, and THANKS JOHN R. MAYER! Karen Rinnert Parsons ========================================================= Tracy Vickers wrote: It is with a sense of melancoly that I sit and write this update. I first posted a newspaper clipping concerning Captain James Strange on 21 Sep 1997. At that time, John R. Mayer responded with a suggested birth of ca.1744 and no clear connection for this person. He shared his research ideas, and although it has taken some time, I have spent most of today at the UBC library researching John's suggestion. I came bounding to my computer, very excited that I could finally share with him the success of my find. Fully expecting, that given I now have parents, a sibling and a royal connection for this Capt. Strange, that John would have him placed in a full family tree. I've been off-line this weekend, so downloading my mail and discovering John's passing has taken the wind from my sails.... to say the least. So, I make this posting in the memory of a friend who took the time to steer my ship into the right wind...... Tracy Vickers Maple Ridge, BC, Canada Genealogy Home Port: http://members.allstream.net/~vickerst/family.html


Tracy has indeed said it for all of us. John, we shall miss you....

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