The Eidse story has always seemed remarkable to me because the Eidses are storytellers by nature. Long on oral tradition. Rumors abound about a connection to the monarchy in the smallest country in the world: Lichtenstein. We have heard of the royal baron who fell in love with a simple peasant woman who was a Mennonite and how he left his riches for her. Another story implies that someone in the Eidse ancestry married a Gypsy and that is why so many of the Eidse family have dark eyes, naturally olive skin and black hair. We'll never know for sure but hot-tempers and passion abound. What follows is not fiction but fact...the passage of time will cloak the mysteries of the rest...
Paternal
G. Grandfathers:Abram Eds -(Neiteicherwald, Prussia) Flemish laborer, employee, poor Gerhard Spenst
Grandfather: Cornelius Eidse (1770) m. 1799 Helena Spenst (1776) by 1804 in Fischau
Father: Abraham S. Eidse (1811-1893) m. 1836
Maternal
G. Grandfather: Cornelius Ens (1743)and Catrina Friesen (1761) (Lakendorf.Prussia) Flemish laborer, employee, poor, 1804.
Grandfather: Cornelius F. Enns (1782-1834) Maria Wiebe (1784-1845) m. 1805
Mother: Anna W. Enns (1817-1864)
Siblings: Cornelius Eidse (1840-1914) m. Cath.Klassen,Helena Loewen,Susann Koehn Kansas
Anna Eidse (1843-1922) m. A.F.Reimer Janzen, Nebraska
Helena Eidse (1846-1918) m. Peter Friesen, Peter Wohlgemuth -later Gnadenau Kansas
Maria Eidse (1848-1934) m. Johan P. Friesen, Blumenort, MB
Justina Eidse (1851-?) m. Gerhard Warkentin Rosenhoff, Neb, Rosenhoff
Heinrich (1853.), Abraham (1854.) Abraham (1855)all 3 died within days of birth.
Heinrich Eidse (1859-?) m. Susan Niessen, Helena Niessen Rosenhoff and Texas ?
Youth and Family
On April 10, 1857 in the Mennonite village of Fischau, Molotchna Colony of South Russia,
Abraham and Anna Eidse were blessed with the arrival of a healthy little baby boy whom they
named Abraham. He was the 10th of 11 children. Three brother's named Heinrich, Abraham and
Abraham respectively died in infancy. His family consisted of one older brother, five older sisters
and one younger brother. His mother died on Dec. 24, 1864 when he was only six years old.
Abraham's family continued to live in Fischau until 1874 when he (17) along with his father (63),
brother Heinrich (15) and sister Justine (23) emigrated to Manitoba on the S.S. Austrian No. 65
on August 31, 1874.
Rosenhoff
The Eidses settled in Rosenhoff on the Scratching River Reserve joining son and brother
Cornelius Eidse. Heinrich Enns, Abraham E. Eidse's uncle, also settled there with his family in
1875. Within a few years Abraham became ill with typhoid fever but due to the assistance of
other families recuperated. Brother Heinrich and father Abraham moved to Abilene, Texas later in
life where his father passed away.
Abraham E. Eidse was a dark-haired, blue-eyed young man, who attended the Rosenhoff Church.
He was baptized on Dec. 18, 1875 - part of the first official baptism of the Rosenhoff-Rosenort
congregation. He helped with the family farm and was employed by the government to build up a
railroad bed through Riverside for several summers. The pay for this job was $2.25 a day. To his
great disappointment the railroad was established through Morris instead.
Eidse honeymoon cabin.1880.
Abraham was married to Helena B. Klassen, daughter of delegate David Klassen, on April 6,
1879. She had been serving the community as a midwife since 1875, at age 13. They established
their own home and began farming on the NW 1/4 16-5-1E in Rosenhoff. They lived in a small
cabin with a lean-to attached. Abraham was a successful farmer and supplemented his income
with a blacksmith shop. Later he also owned and operated one of the first steam threshing
machines. Community members said of Abraham that whatever he touched turned to gold. The
saying went that where he walked the wheat grew higher and the yields were better. It seemed
the land he farmed grew bountiful crops.
Ministry
On March 22, 1882, in part due to the Holdeman split, Abraham was elected to serve as a deacon
in the Rosenhoff KG church. At the same time his nephew Johann K. Friesen was ordained as a
minister. In 1902 the church chose him to be a minister. Johan R. Dueck was elected to serve as
a deacon in his stead. Both Abraham and Helena were kept busy preaching, farming, raising their
children and caring for the sick. Rev. Eidse often preached his sermons from memory rather than
in the traditional reading style. Because he suffered from hardening of the arteries and anemia he
sometimes delivered his messages sititing in a chair. Thirty perfectly preserved sermons
handwritten, dated and preached by Abraham are extant and in care of Nettie Bartel of Riverside.
Abraham ministered in his home church, on the East Reserve, and also travelled to Nebraska to
participate in several conferences there. He signed an important Kleine Gemeinde document in
1901.
Partly due to the fact that his wife was an experienced midwife, Abraham lead discussions on
sexuality at a few brotherhood meetings. He emphasized maturity, graciousness, patience and
restraint on the part of men toward their wives. He attempted personal family counselling where
abuses were noted. He mentioned Mosaic laws regarding menstrual cycles, cleanliness and
abstinence shortly after childbirth. He and his wife did their best to alleviate ignorance in the
community.
One of his best friends through the years was Rev. Johan K. Friesen. They were companions in
baptism, ministry, shared children in marriage, and travel. Abraham shared the devotional at the
Friesen's 50th anniversary July 20, 1926.
An interesting fact of Abraham's life was that he supported mission outreach at a time when
preservation rather than the propagation of the gospel was stressed in the Kleine Gemeinde
churches. As early as 1910 Abraham and Helena were financially supporting a missionary couple
(Penners) in India. In the 1920's Abraham actively encouraged the beginnings of the Mennonite
Central Committee. He developed lifelong friendships with his German-Lutheran laborers and is
credited by the Brunkild congregation as the minister who helped organize the original Brunkild
Lutheran congregation. He is noted as having lead their first brotherhood meeting. He was well
known as a financial advisor and also acted as a banker for a number of new immigrants.
An Immigrant's Testimony
According to Abram J. Berg, a Russlaender Mennonite immigrant, his experiences with Rev.
Eidse were very positive. Excerpts from his book are as follows, "There was a kind old gentleman
on the train with white hair, a long white beard and friendly eyes...He said he had looked at the
families with the most children and he like us. He had an empty house and barn on one of his
farms where we could live by ourselves and Peter and I would always have work on the farms of
one of his three sons...We didn't realize how luck we were at that moment but we soon found
out. When we arrived at the railway station in Morris all the families were lined up on the
platform of the railway station and examined as to their potential usefulness to our hosts, much
like the negro slaves in their time. And you heard remarks like: "They have too many kids, we
have enough of our own," or "I don't like that woman" etc. We, the Peter Berg family, had
already been selected and were spared all those humiliating remarks. How fortunate!
" The house was fully furnished, a stove, a rough table, some beds, cooking utensils, plates, cups,
etc. right to a box of matches, not a thing was missing. And there was a cow in the barn. There
was also some food, bread, potatoes, coffee and milk. Who expected that?.. Mary had, by that
time, organized her household under the supervision of old Mrs Eidse, who was a very friendly
and efficient old lady. She was also the doctor and midwife of the district....Old Mr. and Mrs.
Eidse were definitely one of the more intelligent families of the Mennonite settlement at Morris
and they stood out from many others. They had four children, Abram, David, Cornelius and a
daughter, Mrs. Bartel. The family was well off, and if I'm correct, old Mr. Eidse owned two
sections of land. I would hesitate to call the Eidses rebellious, but they definitely had a a mind of
their own and managed to get away with it in the generally narrow-minded congregational
structure and its rules.
As I have said, old Mrs. Eidse was a minister of their Kleinegemeinde Church. He had a beard
which was against the regulations of their church. "A beard is the pride of man, and the Bible
condemns pride", was one of their rules. He was the first to by a steam engine and threshing
machine. When he did that the congregation tried to excommunicate him. He invited them to the
field and gave them a demonstration, showing them how well it all worked and persuaded them to
delete that regulation from the list of sins."
Rev. Eidse managed to keep Abram and his brother employed well after the regular work season
was over so that they'd be able to pay of their travelling debt. He went the extra mile arranging a
work trip out to cousins in Saskatchewan and then later pulling some "strings" with Baptist
friends of his from Morris.
Travels Abroad
In 1910, Abraham, Helena and daughter Lena travelled to Kansas and Nebraska together. They
presumably visited family in both states. Abraham travelled to Nebraska a number of times to
minister in the KG church there and told many hilarious stories of his adventures in America.
Once he was left standing at the church doors with no place to go for dinner. Everyone had
assumed he had somewhere else to go. So he simply walked to the nearest neighbour and was
welcomed in for dinner with them.
At another dinner adventure, he ate a number of pieces of chicken and was encouraged by his
hostess to eat more. Soon his plate was full of bones. The tablecloth was beautiful and he didn't
know where to leave them. Just then the lady of the home spilled gravy all over the table. To
allay her embarrassment, he grabbed the empty gravy dish and threw in his chicken bones saying
that now at least he had a place to put them. Laughter ensued and dinner continued.
Flu Epidemic
During the winter of 1918-1919 Spanish influenza hit virtually every family in the Rosenort-Rosenhoff area. Dr. Ross gave out a serum to protect people from it but it didn't seem to take
proper effect. Abraham and P.U. Brandt seemed to have high immunity and worked alongside
Helena changing bed sheets and bathing foreheads to battle the bug. Abraham and Mr. Brandt
also made rounds at all the farms and tended to the daily chores such as milking and feeding the
livestock when the other men were all sick in their beds. It was a tragic time since many lives
were lost and made especially difficult because bodies of loved ones were put out in sheds to
freeze until the rest of the family was well enough to hold a funeral. Personal Life
Abraham Eidse is remembered for his striking blue-eyes set off by his white hair, high, large
cheekbones, mustache and white full beard. He stood about 5'10''. During the 1900's he wore
dark three piece woolen suits brightened with a golden pocketwatch and chain and when outside
covered his hair with a grey cap. He enjoyed story-telling and practiced and honed this art on
Sunday afternoons when he and his wife received company. He loved little children and spent
time with his grandchildren teasing them and swinging with them. Abraham enjoyed his
devotional life. He read the Bible before breakfast, sang some songs with Helena and then would
pray aloud in German, though silent prayer was the norm. Table grace was also verbalized. This
left a deep impression on their children and grandchildren.
Retirement and Death
In 1929 Helena and Abraham celebrated their 50th wedding anniversary together with many
friends and family at the Rosenhoff South School. It was a rare occasion since very few couples
spent that many years together at that time. The grandchildren recited poems nervously and then
the large gathering of people shared faspa together.
Abraham suffered from a blood disorder (anemia or leukemia) for many years and in spring of
1930 was beginning to become very ill. Even on a very warm day he would be all bundled up in a
wool cap with ear flaps, a heavy coat and overshoes because he felt so cold. His sons Dave and
Cornie took him by car to seek treatment for his illness at the Mayo Clinic in Rochester,
Minnesota but his illness was too advanced and he returned home with his sons. He died later
that summer on July 16, 1930 in his home reaching the age of 73 years.
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