Richard Fewer & Catherine Phelan

Family Group Sheet


Name

Richard Fewer

Birth

abt 1859, Aglish, Kilkenny, Ireland1

Residence

Aglish, Kilkenny, Ireland1

Marriage

2 Feb 18711

Spouse

Catherine Phelan2,1

Birth

abt 1856

Father

Phelan

Children

1 M

William Fewer1

Birth

18721

2 M

Thomas Fewer2,1

Birth

18741

3 M

Walter Fewer4

Birth

18761

Death

bef Feb 19474

4 F

Alice Mary Fewer1

Birth

18781

5 F

Ellen Fewer4,1

Birth

18801

Spouse

Philip Murphy

6 F

Margaret Fewer4

Birth

18834,1

Spouse

Tom??? Seery/Seary

7 M

Edmund Patrick Fewer Sr.1

Birth

4 Jul 1884, Waterford, Waterford, Or Aglish, Kilkenny, Ireland2,1,3

Death

1 Feb 1947, San Francisco, San Francisco, CA4

Spouse

May Anne Devine

Marriage

7 Nov 1907

8 F

Bridget Fewer4,2,1

Birth

abt 18884

Spouse

Kelly

9 F

Mary Fewer1

Birth

18901

10 F

Joe (Josephine?) Fewer1

Birth

abt 18941

11 M

Pat Fewer1

Birth

abt 18961

Notes for Richard Fewer

lived on a poor farm in Kilkenny, and had 13 children (from letter to Helen Maselli from 'Mary' [Phelan])
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Census

'Dick' Fewer was a 42-year old married farm servant in the
household of Thomas Nolan, farmer, of Rathkieran (a nearby locality
to Aglish) [from 1901 census]
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Notes for Catherine Phelan

Greg Fewer says name is Catherine. Aunt Helen's notes say Mary.

Census

"a 45-year old housekeeper' in Aglish South townland" [from 1901 census]1

Notes for Thomas (Child 2)

not actually adopted, but came to US to live with Uncle Matthew Phelan
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Notes for Ellen (Child 5)

not actually adopted, but came to US to live with Uncle Matthew Phelan
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Notes for Margaret (Child 6)

not actually adopted, but came to US to live with Uncle Matthew Phelan
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Notes for Edmund Patrick (Child 7)

came to US to live with Uncle Matthew Phelan2

Misc. Notes

I found the following directory listings:

1905:
FEWER, Edward, salesman, r. 1833 Hyde
Thomas, condtr, Cal. St. RR, r 1833 Hyde

1908/09:
FEWER, Edward P., lab., r. 374 26th av
Thomas, gardener, r. 422 8th av
Walter, refiner, US Mint, r. 350 9th av

1909/10:
FEWER, Walter, refiner, US Mint, r. 704 8th av

1911:
FEWER, E., cond., r. 374 26th av
Thos., lab., r. 422 8th av
Walter, refiner, r. 1152 Clement

in the 1982 phone book were:
FEWER, B. (no address listed)
Brian, 731 41st av
Robt, 731 41st av
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Misc. Notes



The earliest memory that I have of Dad is when I was about three years old. It could not have been that I was older, as I was still the only child.

The memory is delightful even now eighty two years later.

It is of Dad washing me just before bedtime. I was sitting on the old wooden drain board in the kitchen of the original two room shack, which had been 'improved' just that last year. Improved from what actually was only a floor and a roof with walls of tarpaper. By the time I reached the age of three, wood had been put on over the tarpaper walls, doors and windows installed and a cold water faucet over a sink. Not that I was being washed with cold water. Oh no, the water
was wonderfully warm and Dad had a wonderful soft touch with the face cloth. When I occasionally use a blade razor, instead of an electric shaver, and run a warm face cloth over my face, it brings back memories.., and tears.

The water was warm, as I learned later, in the wood burning kitchen stove, which had a 'water-back' This water-back was a few short lengths of water pipe installed in the fire box. As the water heated it flowed into a thirty gallon tank behind the stove.
The wood burned in the kitchen stove was chopped by Dad. When I got a little older I piled the wood as he chopped. The wood obtained from a all over San Francisco. Seems Dad spotted buildings where there had been a fire, or were being torn down and offered to cart the old lumber away. He always knew where to borrow a horse and wagon. I was taken on a few of these trips.

One I remember well, which was told on old KGO radio. About 1917 Dad was a conductor on Car 42 of the Hyde Street Cable Car Line. On his trips up and down Hyde Street, he noticed that one of the old mansions on Hyde Street was being torn down. He stopped the car in the middle of the block and went to the wrecking site to ask the foreman of DOLAN'S wrecking crew if he could haul some of the lumber away. The foreman said ... 'yes, take the old outside lumber but leave all of the frescoes and inside wood. A couple of days later Dad borrowed a horse and wagon and took me down to ''help' load the lumber on the wagon, Well, in a couple of hours the wagon was more than full of real choice fire-wood-lumber. Dad clucked the horse out onto Hyde Street and started up the hill. Anyone that knows San Francisco knows Hyde Street is quite a hill. And at that time is was paved with cobble stones. The poor horse, with its tremendous load kept slipping on the stones. We, I mean Dad, did not dare to turn and head down hill... we would have landed in the Bay. So he pulled the horse and wagon and lumber and me over to the side of the street. There we waited for the next Cable Car to come up the hill. Dad flagged it down. Of course he knew both the conductor and the Gripman. In a few minutes the three of them had a rope tied to the back of the car and the other end to the front of the wagon. I can still hear the horse saying "thank God" and this was before long before Ed the Talking Horse. In a few minutes we were at the top of the hill and on our own and on the way to 26th and Clement with a load of fine lumber, soon to be converted in fire-wood by Dad.

Dad liked to chop wood. Perhaps he worked off some of his frustrations by this physical activity.. .and god knows he had aplenty of them, as only he and I knew about. ..and now I only know. He was without a doubt the most malaligned man I ever knew. As far as I know the only 'exercise' that Dad ever engaged in was chopping wood. He chopped and I piled. Oh, he did introduced Rounders to the neighborhood, but actually he did not play very often. So where he got his physical strength I don't know. He was the strongest man I ever knew. Most people resisted shaking hand with him a second time... .and he did not squeeze hard to be mean.. there was not a mean bone in his body.. .he could carry tremendous weights of wood, as he did in carrying drift logs from Bakers Beach, for firewood naturally.

Often Dad would take me for a walk down to China Beach and we would wade in the cold water on the soft sand. He often said that if one would walk in the cold water every day he would never grow old

When I was very young Dad was a sewer cleaner. He and a couple of other fellows would walk about the City every day with long shovels, maybe ten or twelve feet long with the blades set at a sharp angle. They would pull the grates of at each corner and dig out the silt and other debris Pile it up on the corner awaiting another crew with a horse and wagon. That job did not suit Dad and he got another one at Kinghams Ham & Bacon Co. smoking hams. Soon he moved up to Conductor on old #42.

As an education, and entertainment I was once in awhile give a couple of nickels to pay my streetcar fare down and back to Hyde Street where I would wait for old 42. When 42 hove in site I would climb aboard and ride to the end of the line and back, with instructions to memorize the names of the street. Dad would very somberly collect a nickel from me. This I could not understand, believing that he should let me ride free. Later I was told that I was a passenger and had to pay like everyone else besides there might be an INSPECTOR on board, watching.

About this time....1921 Uncle Den Devine (Mom's brother) got on the Police Force, as it was called in those days. He came out one evening to tell us about the job and to show off his paraphernalia, We were in rapt attention over the star shivered at the night-stick and billie club could hardly look at the pistol and found the handcuffs very inter- esting, especially when Uncle Den demonstrated them to all of us by handcuffing Dads hands together, to then remember he had left the keys at home. With mush embarrassment Dad had to ride the Clement Line streetcar down to Uncle Den's home on Larken Street....like a criminal yet.

Dad wanted to be a Policeman nothing would stop him. Still a conductor on the Hyde line, he started Civil Service night school. After a few months notices were posted that the Fireman's examination and then the Police examination were about to be held. Dad took and passed both of the examinations. However he scored a little higher on the fireman's and was soon called up. He really was not anxious to be a Fireman, but it paid better than THE Cable Cars and besides the hours were much better in that he would no longer have to get up at four thirty every morning as a Conductor, and would no longer have to cover his chest with newspaper before putting on his shirt. The Cars were bitter cold in the mornings as they were wide open to the wind and fog of San Francisco.

So Dad became a Fireman.... for about a year, then his name came to the top of the list on the Police roll. So I'll never forget, the excitement was terrific...his dream come true-he was in Blue.



There was never a man more proud of his uniform. At five foot eight he stood a foot taller, and commanded and got the respect due the uniform and badge from those residents of his varied Beats.

As long as the subject of his height has been open, this would be a good place to remind the reader that the minimum height required to be a San Francisco Police Officer was five feet eight inches. Dad was not quite five feet eight, and this showed up on the physical examination. Imagine he passed the written exam fairly high, passed all the physical tests of running, lifting, carrying, jumping with high scores and now he is faced with the fact that he is a little too short. Well the examining doctor was a human being. He told Dad to go home and stay in bed for a week, have someone pull his legs a couple of times a day and then come back for a re-exam And that's what Dad did, We kids pulled several times everyday. When the day of the exam came we called friend who owned a truck... . in the back of that truck we hauled Dad down to the examining depot and almost carried him in for the second measurer Needless to say he passed the test and was taken home to shrink back to hi original five feet seven and seven eighths inches.

In the early day's on 26th Avenue Dad grew dahlias and potatoes. All thought the Richmond District the soil was virgin sand. . we had better potatoes than anywhere in Ireland… . and we had the best, largest, most colorful dahlias anywhere. We also had the largest and most abundant blossoms of Baby Roses, Year long there at least two hundred Baby Roses (Probably today called Tea Roses). Men on their way to work, walking down 26th Avenue would stop and pick buttoneirs every morning .

There are two other occupations of Dad's that I remember well. He cut our hair. . at least the hair of the three boys. I think Gertie and Helen escaped. In the beginning the victim sat on a stool in the kitchen and Dad hacked away with a comb and scissors. As he gained more expertise, and a few dollars, a hand activated clippers was added. Seems that if the clipper was moved faster than it was squeezed it would pull the hair and we would yelp. I once accused him of pulling my hair out instead of cutting it.

Dad also repaired our shoes. He bought a shoe-makers last and a box of tacks. The last had three or four different size cast iron shoe's onto which our various size shoes would be fitted and a piece of leather would be tacked on. One word about the leather. At this period Dad was a Conductor of old #42 Cable Car. These cars were cable-cars, that is there was a moving cable under the tracks, that when hooked onto would pull the car. Movement of this cable was produced by a big motor in the basement of the car-barn In this process large leather belts were used. They were more than a foot wide and many feet long. Frequently the belts would break and have to be repaired. Dad got the leather scraps and used them for shoe leather. This leather after having been used as a motor belt was as hard as iron, and when used as shoe leather would last longer than the original.

Dad was a strong, physical man, but he had one weakness. That was his skin. Policemen took their turns at traffic duty, and when Dad's turn came to direct traffic, say at the corner of Fulton and the Great Highway, he would come home the color of a tomato. His body was the whitest white, and could not be exposed to the sun. This maybe one of the reasons that he never went on picnics or summer vacations with us. I can remember once, we were all up at Guernewood Park for a month's summer enjoyment (more about that later) and Dad came up on the train for a weekend. . I'm sure he miserable the entire time. He sat on the beach with us dressed in a blue serge suit complete with white shirt and tie, only sans a jacket. Sweating and turning red .

That was his one and only vacation with us. We used to go on picnics every Sunday. These started shortly after we bought our first car, in the Spring of 1923. I would phone, oh yes, by then we had a phone, The number was 108. Anyway, on Friday evening I would phone various friends, who had cars in the family, such as Noel Waite, Pinky Robinson, Al Pottero to see if they could go the next Sunday, always asking what room they would have in the car for anyone who did not have a car, but would like to go. Then I would call those who did not have a car, who (Whom) would like to go, such as Rosy Rosenberg, Seymore Pearson, Fritz Pfeffer and those whom I have forgotten. We would arrange to meet, after Mess, and caravan to the picnic. This caravanning was important, because three or four cars could not be expected to go about forty miles without trouble. . . . and it was always nice to have help with the trouble.

So we would gather Sunday morning about eleven o'clock and drive to the picnic area which would usually be Woodside Creek, Searsville, Half Moon Bay or once in awhile Almaden. We had GREAT TIMES. Every body brought their specialty food and we feasted like kings. Hiked and swam and sometimes shot, with our twenty-twos, at ground squirrels (never ever hitting a one,) I can not ever remember Dad going on one of these picnics.
Before we had the car a RED SAXON (More about that Later). . Dad and the entire family, which became more numerous as time went by, would take Sunday walks, almost always to the Park. Of course to San Franciscans there is only one park. . Golden Gate Park. Sometimes we would go to the concerts at the open air pavilion near the Conservatory. Many other times we would walk to a lake near twenty forth and Fulton, take our lunch and have a day walking thru the bambow jungle and trying to catch a fish in the lake. A great day but always a long walk home.
As I remember from about the age of three years, Dad always 'played' Santa at Christmas. Early on, he was Santa only to me and Mom. At what could be his first performance we had a fire. There was a Christmas Tree established on the kitchen table, decorated with homemade ornaments and lighted with candles. Well, Santas beard (Of cotton) got too near a candle and every thing light up. But Santa being omniscient, grabbed a pan from under the sink and doused the flames. Little Ed was asking the next day, 'How did Santa know where the pans were ?"
Dad ran this Santa routine for about thirty five years, before brother Dib took over the job.
Dad set the pattern for Dib to follow, he would tour the neighborhood for all jolly good fellows to follow him, all the while singing, down to 374 - 26th Avenue, where we would all gather at Mom's candle light tree, for small gifts and a few good swallows, and then off to Midnite Mass. There is no doubt that a few milk-warmers were enticed to follow.

At a very early age I can remember Dad & Mom and I going to the local movie house on Friday nights. . . in a short while Dib was added and very soon Beau came along. The movie house was at 23rd and Clement, and was named The Nicloludium.. . That's exactly what is was. The NICK and you could get in for a nick, or a nickel.

They had great movies. W.S. Hart . who NEVER kissed the GIRL . Charlie
Chaplin. Fattie Arbuckle W.C. FIELDS and so many others, Trials of
Pauline., .Fu-Manchu. . . ( if the author needs more I will re-search).

As we filed to the theater. . . Mom, Dib (maybe Beau) and I, we push and pull so that we could sit any where but next to Dad. He was exuberant His laughter carried thru out the theater, in fact even started the laugh. And just in case you, sitting next to him, did not catch the joke, or what ever was funny, you got a 'nudge' in the ribs from Dad's elbow to help you catch the 'funny'. Ones rib might not break, but then you remembered when the next family together movies took place.
After the movie we all ran home. . . all the way claiming 'firsts' on the bathroom. What am I saying we had no bathroom. There was a kitchen sink and a shed about thirty feet back of the house. . . a pre Chic Sales. And let me say one thing about an outside Privy. There is nothing whatever that has contributed more to CONSTIPATION than a privy in cold damp foggy San Francisco .

One of the things that stands out in my mind, is that I was NEVER conscious of being poor. I guess we probably were poor most of the time, but kids never knew it. Well, after all, we were always well fed. Always in a nice, snug bed, even if two slept up and two slept down. Thats to-That's We were always well clothed. . . . some of mine were new some of my clothes came from McCallister Street and all were handed down to Dib And then they to Beau. And after all those little kids didn't know new from old. But were kept warm and dry.

Yes, warm and dry. Well these modern kids don't know what that means. Let me help them. San Francisco, not now, but eighty years ago was a cold and damp place to live. Our little shack on 26th Avenue at 374, was cold drafty, uninsulated. One layer of wood or. the floor and one layer of wood on the walls. The windows and doors leaked air like a gale. Now that can and was cold. Mom would get Dad off with breakfast about five AM. Then with the kitchen stove red-hot we kids would get a call. maybe ABOUT SEVEN. They last of us, probably me, would dragged out to the kitchen to get dressed. Mind you we had only two rooms - kitchen and bedroom . . . privy in BACKYARD. "BUT MOM I Don't HAVE TO GO".

All of us would dress standing on stools or chairs, because it was warmer up off the stone cold floor. . I can remember, there was a shelf about shoulder hight when I seated on the chair, on the shelf was a can containing Mom's buttons. It was an old tobacco can. Every morning I would read the printed matter on the sides of the tobacco can, and to this day I can recall the printed matter almost as well as I can my prayers. " United Tobacco. . . . etc. " Ask Dorothy, she has the can.
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Misc. Notes

Our Father Edward Patrick Fewer

Dad also came from Ireland on a ship. Come to think of that, how else could one get here at that time? The first job he worked at , was shoveling gravel off of a "flat car" in Stockton during the hot summer time.

Our Dad was something. Along with hand me down clothing, he cut our hair , re-soled our shoes with belt leather scraps. Sometimes the tacks did not get bent over enough on the iron last, leaving the points up toward the soles of our feet; we used cardboard to ease up on the ouches, until he got out the ""iron last"" again.

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Notes for Bridget (Child 8)

not actually adopted, but came to US to live with Uncle Matthew Phelan
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