Christmas at 9 James Street
Memoir # 8
CHRISTMAS AT 9 JAMES STREET
by R.V.H. Barbé - April 4, 1998


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Christmas preparations began weeks ahead at 9 James as a large boxes had to be prepared to send to the Law family in Thamesville and the Barbé's in Hamilton. Mom and her sister, my Aunt Bea, always exchanged gifts and cooking at Christmas. Mom made Christmas pudding and Aunt Bea made Christmas cake. Each made enough for both families and more.

So began the Christmas pudding cooking binge. Mom added ingredients to the bowl as I mixed and stirred. When one batch was done another would be started. The wood burning cook stove would be covered with pots and pans, all half full of water with the bowls full of pudding inside, gently simmering hour after hour. What a wonderful aroma! Looking back it seems as if this process went on day after day for many days. It's hard to put it into perspective.

Then came the time to prepare the boxes to mail. Dad would bring large heavy duty cardboard boxes home from the store. Into the bottom, well padded, went the puddings. Then the gifts that had been wrapped, each into its own little nook, were carefully added to the parcel. When the box was filled, then came the securing of the box. Dad had brought home a spool of butcher cord as well and he would systematically tie the cord tightly about the box. Each knot was kept taut with a well placed finger as the rest of it was tied. When I was little, I remember feeling grown up to be helping by putting my finger on the knot. Then the address was put on in large bold letters. For some reason I was greatly impressed because the letters had to be so large and bold on these very special boxes.

A week or so later, boxes would arrive from Thamesville and Hamilton. When they were opened, there would be great speculation about what might be in each of the gifts. Aunt Bea's Christmas cakes would be in there too.

Although some decorations might be put around the house, or snow stencils might be sprayed on the windows, the Christmas tree that had been bought would not be brought in until Christmas eve. When I was little, this was done after I was in bed.

Christmas morning, for this child, was an extra special occasion. It seemed as though I was the only one in the world excited though. I would be up early, and there hanging from my door knob would be my stocking, filled to the brim. I would grab it and run into Mom and Dad's room, where I could spread out the goodies on their bed as each was extracted from the stocking. Mom & Dad would open theirs too. Mom would get some nice things, but Dad would get coal and potatoes and such. Then he would make a comment about trying to behave better the next year.

I remember sitting at the top of the stairs, impatiently waiting for the others so that we could go downstairs to see all the Christmas presents and the tree. From my perch at the top of the stairs, I could just see a couple of tantalising branches of the tree. When we finally arrived downstairs, I can remember being almost awe-struck at how beautiful this tree, that had spent the last few days stuck in a snowdrift outside, now looked with its lights and balls and tinsel and all. And then the presents, piled under the tree, for all the family. Doreen and Marj and their families, as they came along, would all be there for the opening of the presents.


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Christmas at 9 James Street
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