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September 15, 2011 The Family of
Ruth Marian Boyer Matchette of Easton, Pennsylvania (1913-1997) The seventh child, and only daughter, of Lew and Henrietta Boyer, Ruth Marian Boyer, was born on February 12, 1913, in Easton, Pennsylvania. Previous sections discuss Ruth's parents, Lewis and Henrietta Boyer, and other Boyer ancestors. Parallel to this section are parts dealing with Ruth's six brothers. See also a Photo Gallery of the Boyers of Easton. This section contains the following parts: Ruth Boyer's
History
Marriage to James Douglas Matchette Jim's Churches Children and Grandchildren of Ruth: Beverly
Ann Matchette Thompson
Husband: Robert Barclay (Bart) Thompson Children of Beverly: Tristin Ruth Thompson Spencer Todd Barclay Thompson Tige Douglas Thompson Sandra Ruth Matchette Campman Husband: Carl Wesley Campman Son of Sandra: Robert Wesley Campman Linda Louise Matchette Haskins First Husband: Thomas Edward Mohr Second Husband: Edward Jacob Haskins Ruth Boyer Matchette's Family Genealogical Chart LINKS: The Boyers of Easton Photo Gallery of the Boyers of Easton The Boyers of Orwigsburg Neil Boyer's Home Page Ruth Boyer's History The seventh and last child of Lew and Henrietta Boyer, Ruth Marian Boyer, was born on February 12, 1913, in Easton, Pennsylvania. She was born at home on Lincoln Street in South Easton. After producing six boys, Lew and Het, it is reported, couldn't agree on a name for the first daughter. One day Lew came home from work and Het opened up his lunch pail to get it ready for the next day. Inside was a little note: "The girl's name will be Ruth Marian Boyer." The family liked to recall "the day Ruth's name came home in a lunch pail." The local newspaper reported that Ruth was baptized at home. The boys in this family were sometimes a little rough, as six boys will be. This led Ruth, the only girl, to learn how to "take her part," as she put it, and she continued doing that all her life. Ruth graduated from Wilson High School in 1932 and worked as a clerk at the William Laubach department store in downtown Easton. She also attended Churchman’s Business College in Easton for two years.
In 1937, Ruth married James Douglas Matchette at Calvary Methodist Church in Easton. Shirley Boyer, Elwood's daughter, who lived with Ruth and her parents on Ferry Street (and was like a sister to the younger Boyer children), was the maid of honor. The wedding was performed by Ruth's brother Walter and the Rev. I. S. Seitz, the church pastor. Nieces Jean and Mildred Boyer were flower girls, and Ruth's brother Ralph sang. Lew Boyer gave away the bride.
Among Jim's recollections about life with the Boyers was the delivery to Ruth, by her brother Elwood, of a large angora goat as a gift, on June 23, 1937, three days before her wedding to Jim. The goat was tied to a post near the garage at 1900 Ferry Street, and the neighborhood kids fed the goat with tin cans. Late on Friday night, after the wedding rehearsal, Jim and his brother Richard drove to the alley behind the house, which was all dark, quietly loaded the goat into Jim's dad's car and took it to a friend in South Easton. Then it turned out that Elwood had only borrowed the goat and, fearing it had been stolen, planned to pay the owner. Ruth and Jim returned from their wedding trip, told the truth, and the goat was returned. In October 1972, Ruth’s brother Walter tried to initiate a monthly newsletter among the seven siblings. His first missive, in fact, was addressed to Ruth and copied to the others. It began:
The cause of the problem in 1972 is not known, nor whether the problem was real. However, it must be noted that throughout her life Ruth complained that her six brothers had had their picture taken together at the wedding of Elwood’s daughter Barbara in 1961, and that Ruth, who was very nearby, wasn’t invited to join in. This excellent picture by the wedding photographer always offended her.
In any event, she was not offended by the letter. Her own epistle in February 1973 said “It seems I can’t get my hubby out of Norristown to visit relations – because this is his job, many weeks six and seven days a week. If I had a car of my own, I surely would see my brothers more often.” She also wrote that her daughters and their families were expected on February 17 to help her celebrate “a big birthday (Six O.). I can’t believe it. After all, I guess we all aren’t getting any younger.” Nevertheless, she reported that she and Jim bowled every week. “His average 169, mine 130 – we both enjoy this sport very much.” The following month Ruth convened a covered dish dinner for all of the family at her home in Norristown. Walter wrote in April 1973 that “gratitude still lingers on. Ruth and Jim are the gracious folk to whom we owe great thanks for one of the most enjoyable get-togethers that the Boyers have shared in many a moon . . . we need more moons.” Jim Matchette had been born on October 29, 1908, in Hokendauqua, Pennsylvania, the son of Richard K. Matchette and Mabel Louise Gower. At the time of his marriage to Ruth, he had just graduated from Lafayette College and was pastor of the Richmond and Raubsville Methodist Episcopal Churches. He and Ruth lived first with her parents on Ferry Street, and then Jim entered Drew Theological Seminary, where he was awarded a Bachelor of Divinity degree. He recorded his church appointments in Pennsylvania in this manner:
*
June
1933
Parryville and Slatedale
* October 1935 Richmond and Raubsville * June 1940 Harriman, Bristol * June 1941 Girardville and Mahanoy Plane * June 1944 Searles, Pottstown * January 1949 Christ (Windsor Street), Reading * June 1953 Wesley (Wharton), Philadelphia * June 1959 Lehman, Hatboro * June 1968 Haws Avenue, Norristown. Ruth was a very active and supportive minister's wife through all of his service in towns in eastern Pennsylvania. At the same time, she raised three daughters and kept her lively sense of humor. As fun-loving as the rest of the Boyer family, Ruth decided at Christmas 1985, at the age of 72, to have her ears pierced. Two sons-in-law held her in place, while the third one performed the task. She was very proud.
Ruth and Jim owned a property in Ocean City, New Jersey, near the boardwalk, and this was used on occasion for summertime family gatherings. Strollers on the boardwalk undoubtedly were amused by the crazy family with look-alike balding men dressed in weird costumes riding bicycles. After Jim's retirement on December 31, 1974, they purchased a permanent home in Ocean City. But even in retirement, Jim served nine years (1976-85) as a supply pastor at Trinity Methodist Church in Margate, New Jersey.
In early 1985, Jim retired again. Later they moved to the Wesley Homestead, at 805 East 8th Avenue in Ocean City, one of nine retirement homes operated by the United Methodist Homes of New Jersey. Still later they moved to the Cornwall Methodist Home, in Cornwall, Pennsylvania, near Philadelphia.
At Cornwall, Ruth suffered a series of illnesses and hospitalizations. She died at 6 a.m. on April 24, 1997, at the age of 84, in the Cornwall Health Center. Jim asked that contributions be provided not for flowers but for the Cornwall Benevolent Fund. Ruth was buried on April 28, 1997, in Quentin Cemetery in Cornwall. She and Jim had been married 59 years. Jim continued living at Cornwall. He had been an original member of the Cornwall Manor Board of Directors, in 1949, and served for 22 years. In his later years, he suffered from a form of skin cancer. He died in the morning of January 6, 2003, in Cornwall Manor. He was 94. Burial was in Quentin Cemetery. A bench on one of the paths of Cornwall Manor has been placed by the family in memory of Ruth and Jim. (Ruth's niece, Jean Boyer Stokes and her husband, Robert Stokes, another retired Methodist clergyman, were living at Cornwall Manor in 2010.)
Children of Ruth and Jim Matchette Ruth and Jim had three children: Beverly Ann Matchette, born in 1941; Sandra Ruth Matchette, born in 1944; and Linda Louise Matchette, born in 1948. 1. Beverly Ann Matchette, first child of Ruth and Jim was born on November 8, 1941, in Ashland, Pennsylvania. She was a magna cum laude graduate of West Chester State College, in West Chester, Pennsylvania. She taught health and physical education in the Manalapan- Englishtown, New Jersey, Regional School District, and was a soccer coach in the Manalapan Recreation Program. In 1985, in addition to teaching and coaching, she began a business called Accent Monogram, creating monograms for sportswear and bath accessories. She was also a Girl Scout leader.
Beverly married Robert Barclay (Bart) Thompson on June 22, 1963. They were married by her father at Lehman Memorial Methodist Church in Hatboro. Bart had been born on August 9, 1939, in Philadelphia. Bart was involved in the textile business in New York City. He worked as a textile designer at various times for J. P. Stevens, Frank Ix & Sons, Glen Raven Mills, and Graniteville Co, where he was administrator of the sales division of sportswear. Bart was also a New Jersey licensed high school football official, and he officiated at games throughout the state for more than 20 years. He and Beverly both coached recreation soccer teams for boys and girls, until their own children outgrew the teams.
Beverly and Bart had three children: Tristin Ruth Thompson, born in 1966; Todd Barclay Thompson, born in 1969; and Tige Douglas Thompson, born in 1970. The family lived in Englishtown, New Jersey, and spent summer months at their house in Ocean City, New Jersey.
About 1989, Beverly was diagnosed as suffering from leukemia. She spent much time at the M. D. Anderson Hospital-Lutheran Pavilion in Houston, Texas. She would go for extended stays every three months, and received, among other things, a bone marrow transplant. She was at the hospital for the last eight months of 1993, and died there in Houston at 8 a.m. on December 31, 1993, at the age of 52. As her sister Linda wrote at the time, "she was a good soldier and fought hard for her life. She never had a negative thought or complained about the treatment or her illness." Because Beverly was so well-liked in the local school district, the Englishtown schools closed early on January 7, 1994, to permit students to attend her funeral. The Superintendent of Schools said that "many students and parents will remember Mrs. Thompson as a caring and spirited teacher. She was a friend and colleague to so many people that it would not be possible to conduct a regular school program, because so many staff will be attending the service." Beverly had taught in the school district for more than 15 years. Memorial services were held in Old Tennent Presbyterian Church, in Englishtown. Following Beverly's death, Bart moved to Hightstown, New Jersey, where he continued his work as a textile designer. He retired in 2001 and was living part-time in Florida and part-time in Ocean City. Children of Beverly and Bart Thompson
A.
Tristin Ruth Thompson, the first child of
Beverly and
Bart, was born on September 17, 1966, in Englewood, New
Jersey. She graduated from Manalapan High School in 1984 and
then majored in biology at the University of Delaware. She
also played soccer and tennis. Tristin graduated in 1988 and
then studied to become a chiropractor.
According to the 2005 website of the Healing Hands Chiropractic Center, in Hebron, Kentucky, Dr. Tristin Ruth Thompson did post-graduate work to master the adjusting art of chiropractic through the Life Chiropractic College, in Marietta, Georgia. She graduated in June 1992. She continued her studies in fibromyalgia, sports medicine, scoliosis management, muscle and soft tissue damage, as well as back injury prevention, through various post-graduate educational symposiums. Tristin started her clinical practice in Hebron in February of 1993. In 2002, she married Brian Spencer, also a chiropractor, on Marco Island in Florida, where Tristin’s brothers lived. In 2008, Tristin and Brian lived in Lakeside Park, Kentucky, not far from Cincinnati, Ohio. B. Todd Barclay Thompson, the second child of Beverly and Bart Thompson, was born on March 12, 1969, in Neptune, New Jersey. Todd was a co-captain of the wrestling team at Manalapan High School and worked summers at the Flanders Hotel in Ocean City. He graduated from Manalapan High School in 1987 and then studied culinary arts at Johnson and Wales College in Providence, Rhode Island. In 1994, he was a chef, living on Marco Island, Florida. Then in 1997, he became second chef (sous-chef) at a Marriott Hotel in Atlanta, Georgia. In 2007, he was Executive Chef for Star World Hotels and Resorts at the West Atlanta Hotel, Perimeter Center West. At the end of the year, he became Executive Chef at the J. W. Marriott Hotel Buckhead on Lenox Road in Atlanta.
In early 2005, Todd had his own website for As You Like It, a catering service that provided “delicious, nutritious, affordably priced, home-cooked meals.” The site said that:
On October 5, 2002, Todd married Jennifer Marie Gruber, and in 2007 they were living in Smyrna, Georgia. Jenn was an attorney for Turner Broadcasting Systems, at the CNN Center in Atlanta. Their son, Tyler Everett Thompson, was born in Atlanta on June 5, 2007. C. Tige Douglas Thompson, the third child of Beverly and Bart Thompson, was born in Neptune, New Jersey, on April 24, 1970. Tige attended Manalapan High School and, like his brother, was a wrestler. In late 1986, at the age of 16, he was injured in an automobile accident and hospitalized nine weeks with leg injuries, followed by seven weeks in a body cast. He later graduated from Manalapan High School and, in 1992, from the University of Arizona.
In 1993, Tige moved to Marco Island, Florida, to join his brother, Todd. Tige joined the sheriff’s office for Collier County, including Naples, Florida, and in 2004 he was a deputy sheriff with the rank of sergeant, in charge of tracking sex offenders. In 2007, he was a police officer with the Marco Island Police Department. He also sold real estate on Marco Island as an agent with Coldwell Banker and was head wrestling coach for nearby Lely High School. He was also a certified personal trainer. On April 30, 2005, Tige married Staci Leah Mullen, who had been born on July 26, 1975, in Naples, Florida. In 2007, Staci was assistant director of education services for Eden Family Services. Eden is a New Jersey-based center for autism, providing life skills education for infants, children and adults with autism. Tige and Staci had a eleven-year-old Siberian Husky named "Dakota." 2. Sandra Ruth Matchette, second child of Ruth and Jim Matchette, was born on February 16, 1944, in Ashland, Pennslvania.
On October 16, 1965, she married Carl Wesley Campman. They were married by Sandra's father at Lehman Memorial Methodist Church, in Hatboro, Pennsylvania, where Jim was the minister. Carl had been born on August 6, 1943, in Abington, Pennsylvania, and he was a printer. Sandra and Carl had one child, Robert Wesley Campman, born in 1975. The family lived in Warminster, Pennsylvania in 2008.
Robert Wesley Campman,
son of Sandra and Carl Campman, was born on
March 1, 1975, in Abington, Pennsylvania. He received a
degree in elementary education from Temple in January 1999 and began
teaching third grade in an elementary school of Abington. In
2005, he was teaching fifth grade in the Hatboro-Horsham School
District. He lived in Warminster, at 1184 Cambridge Road,
close to Sandra and Carl. On August 13, 2005, Bob was married
to Rebecca
I. (Becky) Abel, a social worker at Abington Hospital.
Bob and Becky had two sons. Ethan
Wesley Campman, was born on October 15, 2008. Jonah Abel Campman was born on August 15, 2011.
3. Linda Louise Matchette, third child of Ruth and Jim Matchette, was born in Pottstown, Pennsylvania, on September 19, 1948. Linda studied to become a hair stylist. She married Thomas Edward Mohr on April 4, 1970. Tom had been born in Easton on January 12, 1945. Tom and Linda had met at the wedding of Ann Lee Boyer, who was Linda’s cousin and Tom’s neighbor. Tom and Linda were divorced in 1974.
On July 31, 1977, Linda married Edward Jacob Haskins. They were married by Linda's father at Trinity Methodist Church in Margate, New Jersey. Ed had been born on November 25, 1944, in Easton, the son of Arnold Edward Haskins and Ellen Esther Kimenhous. Ed had gone to Easton High School and then Empire Beauty School. He worked for the Glenby Company for four years before opening his own beauty salons. He ran one in Riegelsville, Pennsylvania, for 15 years, and opened his main salon in Bethlehem in 1968.
Linda joined him in his business in 1977, a full-service shop known as “Golden Scissors,” including tanning, massage, reflexology and podotherapy. Their shop also offered a line of clothing and jewelry. The shop was located at 3320 Easton Road, between Bethlehem and Easton. Ed retired from the business in 2000, while Linda was continuing to operate “Golden Scissors” in 2005. Ed began working with “Infoguard,” a company started by his brother, Robert A. Haskins. Infoguard handles data management and secured destruction of documents, including shredding and archiving of records. Robert’s company was based in Lansdale, Pennsylvania, and operated in Delaware, Maryland, southern New Jersey and the Philadelphia areas. In their spare time, Linda and Ed also bred and raised Labrador Retrievers and showed them in field trials licensed by the American Kennel Club. Linda also ran seminars in dog training which were advertised nationwide, and Linda and Ed traveled across the country judging AKC-licensed retriever field trials.
In 1990, a major display in the Easton Express discussed the beautiful new house that Linda and Ed were building near Coopersburg, in northern Bucks County. The open-beam house stimulated the headline "Beaming Over Their New Home: Couple Built it Their Way." The article began, “Linda Haskins goes to shake hands and realizes that she has a fist full of nails. “Oops,” she apologizes, opening her fingers. “I guess this is one of the hazards of supervising the building of your own home.” In 1995, after Ed's mother moved in with them, they sold the house in order to minimize travel between home and work. In 2006, they lived above their shop in Bethlehem.
LINKS: Ruth Boyer Matchette's Family Genealogical Chart The Boyers of Easton Photo Gallery of the Boyers of Easton The Boyers of Orwigsburg Neil Boyer's Home Page |
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