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Genealogy 101 - Polite Genealogy

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Polite Genealogy
By Judith Florian

As my Grandmother, the late Ruth Lane McGary, taught me the "how to's" of genealogy.  I never thought I would later pass her instructions to me along to other researchers via this website. Mixed into her lessons were many cautions and advisories. This writing sums up what I learned about doing "Polite Genealogy."

"Polite" ways to do research goes way beyond just "do you have?" 

It includes saying and doing these things:

Saying please every time.

I'll repay your costs plus give you a fee.

I'll make it as easy as *I* can for you to help ME.

I'll only ask for what I need, and if I find I need more 
I'll wait a while in between 
before asking you to help me again.

And I will thank you, first in my request, second if I have to 
contact you while waiting, and third when or shortly 
after I receive from you ANY answer, 
even if your answer is "nothing found". 

If I request by phone, I'll be sure to include postage when 
I pay the fee, and if I request by regular mail, 
I'll include a SASE for you to use. 

If you ask me to send loose stamps instead, I'll comply 
because you know how I can best help you to help me; 
I'll comply with most reasonable limitations you make 
about helping me because I, too, want to act reasonably. 

I do all this with the understanding that the genealogy 
"hobby" may not always be the "cheapest" hobby, and 
even Great Aunt Sally may need my money to send me 
the papers / pictures / family treasures I have asked 
her to share with me. 

While it is true that "Names and dates are not copyrightable", 
the Court House / Historical Society / Genealogy Society / 
Library / other source of records also must charge me fees 
to obtain those names and dates if I am unable to appear in 
person and look it up myself. 

The Historical Society / Genealogy Society / Library do not 
"make money off of me" for sending me what I request.
indeed, many of these organizations face annual fiscal deficits 
for operations, salaries, overhead, and they need additional 
financial help to buy new (or old) records and handy research items. 

Before I complain about what a place did not give me for my research, I must remember to thank them double for simply staying open and allowing access to the records they have, then remember to thank them triple (profusely is a good word) when they have what I need and fulfill my request for help. 

Lastly, Grandma reinforced that it didn't matter where I found the information, date, name, fact I needed, but I should ALWAYS "Cite my sources and give credit where due". 

Grandma understood the polite way to do genealogy, 
long before the Internet became the latest research tool.

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