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Mary Hitchcock                                        see FAMILY TREE

Born: 2 Feb 1637/8 New Haven, CT
   

Married: 12 Oct 1663 Ralph Russell
Married: 29 Dec 1679 John Potter  


 

Died: After Jan 1706/7 New Haven, CT 

Mentioned in will of her husband, John Potter  

FATHER

Edward Hitchcock

MOTHER

Mary

HUSBANDS

Ralph Russell

John Potter

CHILDREN with Ralph Russell

1. John Russell
    b. 14 Dec 1664 Quinnipiac, New Haven, Connecticut, British Colonial America
    m. 17 Aug 1687 Hannah Moulthrop
    d. 13 Feb 1723

2. Joseph Russell
    b. 20 Mar 1666/7 Quinnipiac, New Haven, Connecticut, British Colonial America
    m. 12 Jun 1687 Jane Blakeman
    d. 11 Jul 1738

3. Samuel Russell
    b. 29 Dec 1671 Quinnipiac, New Haven, Connecticut, British Colonial America
    m. 27 Feb 1694 Esther Tuttle
    d. 26 Jun 1724

4. Edward Russell
    b. 25 Feb 1673 Quinnipiac, New Haven, Connecticut, British Colonial America
    b. 20 Mar 1666/7
    d. 3 Aug 1684

CHILDREN with John Potter

1. Abigail Potter
    b. 23 Sep 1680 Quinnipiac, New Haven, Connecticut, British Colonial America
    m. Abt. 1699 Samuel Thompson
    m. Abt. 1718 Thomas Smith
    d. 27 Mar 1756

Mary Hitchcock
by Susan Brooke
May 2020

Mary Hitchcock was born in New Haven on Feb 2, 1637/8. (1) Her mother, Mary, died sometime before May 1656 when her father, Edward Hitchcock,  remarried to a Frances.  Mary was about 18 at that time and by Nov 1657 she was working as a servant in the home of Magistrate John Brooke.  An Edward Neele "frequented that home" and somehow a contract of marriage was drawn up between her and this Edward Neele.  However, it was declared a "lye" by her father and ended up in the New Haven courts on the 6th of 8th month 1657. (2)
Mary must have continued working at the home of John Brooke but did not keep out of trouble.  Sometime before her father died, she must have been accused of theft because in a court appearance in Dec 1661 Mary was "minded of a former miscarriage of her in the way of Theft for which she was corrected by her father."  She was in court at the time for fornication.  By this time her father had died and on May 11, 1659, she had received her inheritance of £20.12.2. (3)  She was 21 and had lost both her parents.
As stated she was back in court in December 7, 1661, she and a fellow servant in the household of John Brooke had both confessed to a consensual sexual relationship.  Richard Matticks testified that she had lured him into her bedchamber.  Mary testified she had only suggested it was time to retire for the night as the Mr. and Mrs. had gone to bed. (4)
Obviously they disagreed.  Richard Matticks also testified that he had offered her marriage and asked her if she was pregnant.  She had responded no to both.  The court then asked if she was willing to marry Richard Matticks.  She said no even though that probably meant corporal punishment.   Mary may have told the court she thought she was pregnant because her punishment was delayed.  When she reappeared in court nine months later on September 2, 1662 her expressions of remorse were seconded by several church members.  She was then sentenced to a fine of £4 which her friend John Herriman promised would be paid. (5)

One year later Mary Hitchcock married Ralph Russell on October 12, 1663. (6) She was 25 years old and Samuel Russell probably in his late 30's or early 40's. Together they had four children, the last, Edward being born on February 25, 1673.  Her husband, Ralph, died before 12 December 1675 when the inventory of his estate was taken.  A couple of years later she appeared in court, a widow, inquiring about some property adjoining the house of her late husband. (7)
In 1675 when her husband died, she was 34 and had four children: John aged 11, Joseph aged
8, Samuel aged 4 and Edward just 2 years old.  A neighbor and friend, John Potter, had lost his wife on June 15 of that same year, 1675.  His son Samuel was just 12 days old when his wife died.  Mary and John Potter married on December 29, 1679. (6) Nine months later she and her new husband had a daughter, Abigail Potter, born September 23, 1680.
John Potter died December 24, 1706 leaving a will naming his wife Mary.  The will was proved "1st Monday Jan 1706/7" referring to Mary as "a laborious, loving, and tender-hearted wife."
(8)

Sources

(1) Connecticut U.S. Church Record Abstracts 1630-1920
(Hitchcock) Abigail, Mary & John, children of (  ) w. of Edw. bb. Dec 15, 1644; Mary b. Feb 2, 1638; John b. Feb last, 1643 

(2) New Haven Town Records, 1649-1684

By New Haven (Conn.)  page 323
Isack Hall, Thomas Weede, Edward Neale, Mary Hitchcock and John Brookes were called before the Court, and the said Isack was charged with writing, and the said Thomas with setting up a writing upon the meetinghouse, publishing a contract of marriage betwixt the said Edward Neale and ye said Mary Hitchcock, when as there is no such matter, as the father of the said Mary (who complained of this wrong) declared; which thing is the publishing of a lye, and the abuse of that wholesome Order made by the Court.  

(3) New Haven Town Records, 1649-1684
 By New Haven (Conn.) page 401
 At a Meeting of the Court the 11th of May, 1659
Francis, the widow of Edward Hitchcock, deceased, having informed that there was a considerable alteration of ye estate of her deceased husband since the inventory was taken, the Court ordered that a new inventory should be taken, before they proceeded to the division of the estate betwixt the widow and others ye were interested therein, which accordingly was done & presented to the Court, amounting to £185.10.09; Deacon Miles and John Cowper did testify upon the oath they had taken ye appraisement was just, according to their best light; with estate being divided, ye proportions are as follows: to Francis, the widow of the deceased, £61.16.11; to John, the eldest sonne £41.5.0 which was by his consent committed to Ensigne Lindon; to Mary, the eldest daughter, £20.12.2; to Abigaile, £20.12.2 1/2, which was at her desire committed to Sergeant Munson; to Samuel, £20.12.2, who being not of age to choose his guardian, it was at the present to remain under the care of the Court; to Elizabeth Perry, a kinswoman to the widow, who according to ye minde of the deceased was to have a childs part, as by ye records doth appear, £20.12.2 which was left with the widow until further orders; all which amounted to £185.10.9; but what shall appear due to Wm Andrewes or Edward Pattison, out of the estate is to be paid by the parties ye possess the estate, according to proportion.

 

(4) New Haven Town Records, 1649-1684

By New Haven (Conn.)  page 497
"that he had committed Fornication with Mary Hitchcock, he thought 6 or 7 times, but whether more than 6 or 7 times he knew not.  The first time (he said) began thus his mr and mrs being gone to Bedd they two being together in the kitchen in ye darke, Mary told him, that he looked like a wenching Fellow, saying come, shall we goe to Bedd."  When Mary testified "she thought it was about 3 or 4 times, the first time about 6 months since, the last about 4 months since (as she thought)-- Richard and shee being in the kitchen together, she said to him, Come shall wee goe to Bedd; haveing  so said, she went into her chamber, & shut the doore closse, being in bed & covered up closse he coming to the doore, she asked him what he did there.  -- She told him she did not bid him come to bed there, but to his owne bedd, & therefore bid him be gone, upon which he went away."  


(5) New Haven Town Records, 1649-1684

By New Haven (Conn.)  page 497
"if she was willing to mary Richard Matticks; she said she was not willing; they were told that by their wickedness they had made themselves one flesh & so unfit for any other; - They were told that by the law they are to be punished, either by enjoyning marriage or fines or Corporall punishment, any or all, as most agreeable to ye Word of God."  When she reappeared in court nine months later on September 2, 1662 John Herriman spoke that "he hoped she had in some measure seen her evil and he desired the lord may help her to see it more.  Therefore desired a fine might be taken for her instead of corporal punishment."  Sister Herriman also spoke that "she had a godly mother, but did not walk in her godly steps yet she did hope that god had begun a repentance in her."  Sister Glover also spoke.    The judges, 'hoping she would become a new woman,' thereupon changed Mary's sentence to a fine of "foure pounds, which Jn Herriman or his wife promised to see payd to ye treasurer."  

(6) Married: 12 Oct 1663 New Haven, CT New Haven Records for Russell
Index to Marriages, Births and Deaths, New Haven 1639-1754
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Marriages:
     Ralph Russell to Mary Hitchcock   12 Oct 1663
     Mary Russell to John Potter           29 Dec 1679
Births:
     John Russell       14 Dec 1664
     Joseph Russell    20 Mar 1666/7
     Edward Russell   25 Feb 1673
Deaths:
     Edward Russell    3 Aug 1684

(7) New Haven Town Records, 1649-1769, 1662-1684

By New Haven (Conn.)  page 367

Town Meeting Held at Newhaven ye 18th of September 1677
John Potter made a motion on ye behalf of Mary Russell, widow, about a piece of Land (about 1.2 of acre) of ye towns which was fence in adjoining to ye house of her late Husband, Ralph Russell; that ye Towne would grant to her ye use of ye said ground and the fruit trees upon it for two or three years, or until ye town see cause upon consideration, further or otherwise to dispose of it.

 


(8) John and William Potter and Their Descendants, page 25

Will of John Potter 1607