The Eulogy
Martin Ellis Capehart was born June 13, 1934 in a farmhouse near Adair, Iowa, to Ray Ellis & Gladys Eilene (Morgan) Capehart, weighing in at 13 pounds at birth. He was the 2nd of 5 children, Nona the oldest and Joan, Jeanne and David following in that order. He wanted a brother very much and was so glad when his baby brother, David joined the family. I'm sure he loved his sisters but what boy wouldn't want a brother in a house full of girls?
During his freshman and sophomore years of high school he played on the Guthrie Center, Iowa football team. He was #33. He did his chores at home, then walked to school from his home in the country and then walked home again following classes and football practice, probably to do chores again. His folks never had the privilege of watching him play and he did not have a picture of himself in his football uniform. A few years ago we visited the Guthrie Center high school and he met with his former football coach, who loaned him a picture of the team, which I had copied at a photo shop, framed and presented to him for his birthday.
The family moved from Adair, Iowa to Harrison Arkansas when he was 16 to help in a mission, now the Harrison Wesleyan Church. He wheeled many a wheelbarrow load of cement for the church building and spoke at the dedication service when they remodeled the original building many years later. He attended Bergman, AR high school, his Junior year and graduated from Miltonvale Academy, Miltonvale, KS following completion of his senior year of high school in 1952.
One of the things I first noticed about Martin was his great respect for women and his love for his mother. He loved all his family but I think it was his mother's prayers who helped make him the man he became. When he was 13 he almost died of pneumonia. His mother sat by his bedside praying, never leaving his side. Sulfa drugs were all that was available then to treat pneumonia and he was allergic to them. This was back when doctors still made house calls. When their doctor left their home one day he didn't expect Martin to still be alive when he returned the next day. God answered his mother's prayers and he returned to full health. He has also told me of the time he was backslidden and his mother held on in prayer for him until he returned to serving God. He also shared with me the time he was crossing a ford in the road and muddy water splashed all over his car's windshield and he couldn't see where he was going. His mother said she felt she needed to pray for him and stopped what she was doing to do so. They compared times and it was at the exact same time he was crossing that ford in the road.
He attended William Penn College at Oskaloosa, IA where we met and the Kansas City College & Bible School, Overland Park, KS. He completed his Course of Study for Elder's Orders through the Wesleyan Methodist Church and was ordained in 1975. Becoming an ordained minister was a very special time for him.
We were married July 14, 1956 at the Cedar Creek Friends church in Henry County, IA, near the small town of Salem. We lived in Oskaloosa, IA a couple months, moved to Harrison to live with his parents a couple months and then traveled by bus to Kansas City and lived in that area a few years.
While we lived at Overland Park, a suburb of Kansas City, our oldest son, Martin Jr and our #2 son, Paul were born. We moved to Rogers, AR during the summer of 1961. Our #3 son, Daniel was born while we lived there. In 1962 we moved to Horton, KS where our # 4 son, Stephen was born..
In August of 1966 Martin took his first pastorate at the Englewood Wesleyan Church located near Phillipsburg, KS. This move became our first all night moving experience. One U-Haul truck was used to move three pastors. The truck broke down and we waited several hours for it to arrive so we could load our possessions and make the drive from northeast Kansas to the northwest part of central Kansas. We pastored there for 5 years. Our youngest son, Joel was born while we pastored there.
In Aug. of 1971 he assumed the pastorate of the Leavenworth, KS Wesleyan Church for two years, then the Mexico, MO Wesleyan Church in August of 1973 for one year. This was followed by pastorates at the Wesleyan Church in Hannibal, MO for 4 years (1974-78); the Wesleyan Church in Caruthersville, MO for 5 years (1978-1983). and the Wesleyan Church at Poplar Bluff, MO for 3 years (1983-1986).
The churches he pastored were all small churches making it necessary for him to be bi-vocational. I think it was at Poplar Bluff when I first noticed a decline in his health. He took a leave of absence July 1986 and never returned to pastoring. He missed the ministry very much. We lived at Powell, MO, then Gravette, AR and moved to our present home in March of 1994. He said he never wanted to move again and that wish was fulfilled when God took him home March 31, 2010.
The last few years of his lives were devoted to a prayer ministry and the wall by his computer was lined with photos of family and friends he was praying for. He believe in honoring our servicemen and every Friday he wore a red shirt in memory of them.
It has been a joy and privilege to do research on his family the past few years and to able to provide him with photos and information on his ancestors and their descendants, people he knew little of before.
What a reunion he must be having now with his parents, his granddaughter Michelle, and other relatives and friends who have gone on before him.
He will be greatly missed by his wife, his 5 sons and 2 daughter-in-laws, his grandchildren and great grandchildren, his sisters and his brother and other family members and friends. We know he is in a better place where there is no more pain and suffering.
Zelda Capehart
April 1, 2010